My guy has been acting kind of wierd and cold with me. How can I find out if he's cheating?
2006-09-05 11:05:07 · 10 answers · asked by behavin26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust your instincts
2006-09-05 11:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by somewoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are very different. I mean, I have seen so many different kind of girls. They all have different behaviors, they all have different opinions, they all have different ways to approach a certain situation and problem... The thing is that even though they might be different, I noticed that these factors are not the reason why I fall in love with a girl. Sure, I might have preferences, but in the end what makes me fall in love with a girl is ultimately the way she "views" me and treats me. If she acts sweet to me, if she gives me the impression that she is very friendly towards me, if she trusts me, if she supports me and if she is interested in me, then I don't see why I shouldn't spend the rest of my life with her. Who could honestly turn down a girl like that? Even if she didn't have any confidence in herself, I still wouldn't turn her down. Instead, I would try and help her and give her support, and hopefully I could help her find confidence. Because in the end there is no "perfect" partner. Everybody have their flaws. But instead of turning down someone because of a little flaw, you could help the person instead. :) You can support each other. Cause in the end, a couple needs to stick together, right?
2016-03-26 23:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
havent you ever heard of the saying "if you feel it in your gut that hes cheating then most likely he is cheating". if hes acting wierd that is a sure sign. and hes acting cold too....advice for you,,,DUMP HIM BEFORE YOU REALLY GET HURT,when you find out he is cheating on you.
2006-09-05 11:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,there could be many answers 2 dis 1. 1stly u could hav done or said something 2 hurt his feelings, it could even mean he doesn't trust you very much any more. As for your assumption, well if he's always preoccupied when you're together, maybe he's not listening to a word you say, then that is a definite possibility..
2006-09-05 11:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a definite trust issue, and thankfully you aren't married yet. I would ask your (joint) friends, because if he is, they know.
If you feel the need and are willing to risk breakup, confront him with your paranoia.
You have 2 options: Trust him or dump him, get your head straight on that and move forward from there.
2006-09-05 11:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just prevent him cheating with a male chastity device.
2006-09-06 22:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by internetoptimiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. I would never cheat. So I don't know what to look for.
but come out and ask him, and if he gives you reason to not believe him, hey, you can always go on Maury.
2006-09-05 11:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
smell his weiner when he comes over. If it smells like... you know... you've busted him. If it doesn't, you're going to have to give him a BJ to explain why you're down there...
2006-09-05 11:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just dump him if he treats you cold.........
2006-09-05 11:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by Robert M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are twice as happy!
2006-09-05 11:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋