i have had 2 really placid, mild-mannered boyfriends who, when i have ended the relationship, have turned completely psycho on me + become manipulative, aggressive, downright abusive and scary. but they never showed any signs of having this side to their personality before. it has made me bitter +afraid to get involved again. because if things don't work out i don't want to go through all that torment again
2006-09-05 10:55:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to trust your own instincs,and get to know them as friends first befor having a relationship.good luck
2006-09-05 11:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by ticklemyfancy1980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you could do with some support. Why not contact your local Women's Aid who can give you some support on signs to look out for in abusive men or take a look at www.freedomprogramme.co.uk - you need to know that not all men are bad & after a bad experience it can take time to feel confident in yourself again.
2006-09-05 11:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no way of knowing how people will react until you get to know them really well and even then they can shock you, I was married for 14 years to a man who I thought was honest and caring and he turned into a lying cheating idiot so be careful out there.
2006-09-05 11:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by jean m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should rethink the kind of men you are dating
2006-09-05 10:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting their time and minipulating for so long next time.
2006-09-05 10:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by commonsenseaintsocommon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take martial arts classes and if some dude gets crazy on you KUNG FU HIS ***.
2006-09-05 10:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest from the start, don`t lead them on.
2006-09-05 11:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by melas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try Asian men they are much more balanced.
2006-09-08 00:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
become a lesbian! is an option.
2006-09-05 10:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by ibit02000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋