What should I do about my college life situation?

Question

I'm 19, im a junior in college and I am in a situation... go figure

Anyway, I gave my number to a girl about a week ago and told her that I would like to hang out sometime, but I had only just met her and it was at my work. She was pretty cute and she seemed quite interested, so I decided to make a move at that point and give her my number. Likewise, I met this really sweet, and very intelligent girl in my class during school and we began talking everytime we saw each other in our 2 classes together. She seemed quite interested in me, as I began to be more and more interested in her.

Now, I have two girls in somewhat different enviornments, whom I am attracted to in one way or another. I am definately single, but at the same time I am not sure what to do. I am afraid to get involved with either girl, as I don't want to hurt the other if I fall for one of them. But I am also not a fan of relationships as I have had bad experiences before. So what should I do?

Also, for the girl who has classes with me, I am afraid that I am being "used" so that she can have me as just a "study buddy" or someone to get help from with school work. I don't want to be used like that and am afraid to get too close to this girl for that very reason. If she acts nice to me but at the same time, uses me for help with school... am I being just used?

Answer 1

Ok....so you gave the one girl your number....did she ever call?

And the girl from your classes...why don't you invite her over for pizza or to hang out. See what she says....