My gf and I had a fight about me looking at other girls but i dont see the big deal since she wont show me anything but yet she always want me shirtless and crap. So I said this so isnt working but she jumped to the conculsion im breaking up with her when i meant our fighting wasnt getting us anywhere. What should I do? Is she in the wrong? Why do some women act this way?
2006-09-05 10:32:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well dear, you have a gf that is not only insecure about you looking at other woman. she is not ready for a physical relationship with you and if you respect her then be with her..if you don't then you move on and find someone that will get physical with you. she has done nothing wrong ..you came into her life at the wrong time perhaps. but she is definitely insecure.
2006-09-05 10:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To us, yes looking at another woman is a big deal. Even if she "wont show you anything" She wants you to only want to look at her, (without picturing her naked). And you shouldn't have to look at another girl. After a fight girls are very emotional and yes maybe we do sometimes jump to conclusions but she was probably just distraught at the time. Just explain to her that you still want to be with her and that you want the fighting to stop. Good luck with your girl troubles.
2006-09-05 10:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by Mary Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a way you are wrong, but she shouldn't have jumped to conclusions abot the fight, but what you have to do is sit her down and explain what you meant by the comment, and some women acted that way because of experience of finding someon having a fight and the someone leaving then, so just give women a layway okay it is not our faults there are jerks in this world
2006-09-05 10:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all,not all women jump to this conclusion after a fight...but most of them ... I think it`s because of the way you men act (not all,but most of you) during a fight...
I think she loves you,and is afraid to loose you,you looked at other girls she was jealous...how would you feel if she would be looking at other guys,and after that you would have a fight?she thought,that you are looking for another girl...she might have thought you are looking for a reason to break off...i don`t know thats my oppinion...
how old is she?i am sure she hasn`t got a lot of experience...I don`t mind if my bf looks at other girls,if they are beautifull i look at them aswell...
2006-09-05 10:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said the words "this isn't working" (what she heard was "this reationship isn't working")
of course she thinks you want to break up!!!! and hey, just b/c she doesn't want to be in-modest or tept you isn't a bad thing, bu wanting you shirtless all the time.....well, that's not cool either (even though I know her feeling...) tell her thats not what you meant by it, and no, shes not in the worng.
2006-09-05 10:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by blue_eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, im thinking that it has something to do with the fact that you told her "this so isnt working" like the other girl said, she heard that the relationship isnt working. and you should be considerate of her feelings about you looking at other girls, its rude.
2006-09-05 10:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋