okay so here's the scoop. i went on a date last night with a guy i really like. it was my first date in a long time. at the end of the night we kissed. yay. anyways, after we kissed i got kinda creeped out and asked him if he was okay with it, and he got kinda annoyed i think and was like, "why do you always think you're gonna scare me?" i blew it i think and ruined the moment. i saw him today and he seemed happy to see me and he said he would call me. should i just relax? he's alot older and more experienced than me so i don't think i creeped him out. i'm just paranoid. but i really want to be able to relax and just enjoy this relationship. he's a really great guy.
2006-09-05 10:25:58 · 10 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he just called me. we might hang out tonight. i'm just gonna relax and let it flow. and maybe get another amazing kiss... thanks everyone!
2006-09-05 12:33:48 · update #1
The moment might have been ruined a bit, but if he was relaxed and happy when you saw him later, I don't think it messed anything up. I'd say, do your best to be yourself around him, make jokes, be fun, be your wonderful self!
2006-09-05 10:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by laura_ghill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a hint......if a guy has his tongue stuck down your throat HE IS OK WITH IT. Never ask that again.
If he calls don't act so immature again. If he doesn't call chalk it up as a lesson learned, and don't stalk him it just makes you look desperate.
2006-09-05 10:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by BadAdvice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would a kiss creep him out? He probably enjoyed it and you sound like a timid child. Relax and go with the flow.
2006-09-05 10:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah just relax. If he's into you, he'll call you, plain and simple. Good luck.
2006-09-05 10:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by ajy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sorry but I'm asking you a question instead of answering yours..why did u get creeped out? trust that inner feeling..something may not be right there..
2006-09-05 10:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you blew the moment, but he seemed to take it in stride.
Next time, just smile and see if he goes for a second one.
2006-09-05 10:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah you know what would be really nice is if you woke up out of your dream and realized that this guy wants to use you as a booty call and nothing more, just giving you the heads up now, you can call me a jerk and say whatever but thats what his motive is.
2006-09-05 10:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by bibby6914 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't even think about it
2006-09-05 10:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by EVY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax we all do funny things on first and second date.
2006-09-05 10:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you blew it at all! your speaking ur mind. most men like that. BEST GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-09-05 10:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋