my ex hurt me more then anyone ever has and ever will its been a few months and hes acting as if he still or has feelings for me again does he? or does he just want to be with me fo some reason i dont know or whatever is he just going to hurt me again?(he didnt cheat but hurt me deeply and badly
2006-09-05 10:24:29 · 9 answers · asked by lilmommiNeosha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he didn't cheat on you maybe you should try it again but beware he may do the same thing or worse but sometimes you have to take a chance rather than always wonder if it would have worked out between you.the only way to know is ti try it again.
2006-09-05 10:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it would help to know what he did to hurt you so badly; but that being said it really depends on whether or not you are willing to put yourself in the position where he could hurt you again.
Given that you don't know what his feelings are towards you, I would maintain my distance. If you feel later on that you might be able to trust him and open up to him again then trust your instincts. I, on the other hand would be very reluctant to get involved with an ex. You'll run into the exact same problems you had before, not to mention all the new ones that will develop.
2006-09-05 17:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had someone to hurt me deeply, not by cheating, and after that I lost all trust in him so I knew that it was not gonna work. Do you still trust this guy? If not, its probably best that it was done. It may hurt but it could be a blessing in disguise.
2006-09-05 17:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible he has learned a lesson, but its you that have to live withe consequences for all the advice you receive. You have to take care of your self first. then you can find the answer, DO not allow you self to be swept off your feet, keep them firmly on the ground so you can get the information you need to make a decision. Best Of luck
2006-09-05 17:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man this is so funny. the same thing is happening to me. seriously. i dont know what to do. im scared my ex will hurt me again too. I hope it works out for you. BEST OF LUCK for both of us.
2006-09-05 17:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...
My ex wife hurt me and then, I'm told, wanted me back...
She left me so, I didn't go there.
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isn't this question about what YOU want?
and I don't know what you want....
so, do you want someone whose actions cause you these questions?
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2006-09-05 17:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurt you again so run for it and don't look back...you know? like my mom said a leopard can't change its spots.
2006-09-05 17:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by Elaine Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you had a friend or daughter that asked you the same question, what would you tell her?
2006-09-05 17:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive him once, shame on him... Forgive him twice.. Shame on you.
2006-09-05 17:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋