So i was at a club and i was standing at the bar waiting for my drink to be ready right and this unhot guy from all the way across the room starts to come closer to me and approach me and i could see from afar that he was unhot and i just started to laugh cause i was like who does this unhot guy think he is approaching someone as hot as me so i laughed and said you gotta be kidding me and so before he could even make it to where i'm standing i scream to him, umm no......stop right there, NEXT! And he stopped in his tracks and went back to where he came from. Was that rude? Do you think i should have given him a chance instead of instantly Nexting him?
2006-09-05 10:17:33 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Not really, in that environment who cares how you act? It's not like you'll find a lasting relationship there anyway...
2006-09-05 10:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Not only rude but stupid. What if he were coming to see if you would go out with his friend, who might have been really HOT!?
He might have been the scout. AND if a real hottie were observing your behavior, you may have bungled the chance to get with the hottie. Believe it or not, you showed a total lack of class.
People like you, who think they are so HOT no one but perfection can approach them, are the ones who eventually end up alone and old, because the rest of the world sees through you.
I was hot to the max when I was younger and was swamped by men and marriage proposals, And honey, I'll be honest. The men whose company I enjoyed the most, were the plain, "unhot" ones. They actually cared about me and my feelings, not just whether other guys saw their trophy date. I made one mistake. I married a hottie when I was young and divorced the egomaniac 18 months later. After that, I made it a point to only date "unhot", sweet men. Had a ball!
The "unhot" guy was very lucky to have avoided the vain, screwed up mess, that you are.
2006-09-05 10:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by grandma's spirit 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You were an arrogant, condescending, mean spirited *****. "No thanks" would have been a lot more appropriate. Try wearing the shoe on the other foot, and imagine how you'd feel if a hot guy saw you as the 'unhot' woman and treated you that way. This goes to show what losers hang out at those clubs.
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2006-09-05 10:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by Michael F 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh. I hope you're just being an immature dork hoping to get stupid responses by posting a fake question.
But if this is for real, yes, you were rude. Also think you were presumptious and egotistical. Perhaps he was walking to the bar to get a drink. Bar isn't just there for you to get a drink...it does serve others.
I think next time, stick your ego in your pocket and wait to see if someone is coming to get a drink. The world doesn't revolve around you. You might've just scared the guy from coming up to order his beer because you probably came off like some psycho w e n c h.
NEXT question!
2006-09-05 10:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by stimply 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder. By, your statement you seem very confident and very sure of yourself-so I'm guessing you make moves on guys when you see one, since you think your so hot-your that confident to approach them because you feel they would never turn down a hot thing like youself-but lemme ask you this-What would happen if you were in the guy's shoes next time? and although everyone else thinks your hot, the one guy your lusting for is the one guy who diputes your hotness and isn't afraid to say so, and makes a degrading remark just as loud? How would you feel?-like shiit of course-so don't be so arrogant-because that type of scenario could/prolly will happen to you-it's called karma!!
2006-09-05 11:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shallow. Proper etiquette is to try to maintain your composure, (don't bust out laughing, don't have an ewwwww expresison on your face), and when he's close enough to talk, and he says his opener, just say "oh, I'm sorry, I'm with somebody" (or just waiting for a friend or some other such thing that ensures he won't ask the second question, make the 2nd remark, and will just go away). Ensure the comment is one that indicates that you are not pursuing this conversation.
2006-09-05 10:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hope that you are kidding and not really that stuck on yourself and that mean. It only takes one accident to take away your looks forever. Fire, car accident, etc. I hope for your sake that never happens, but you never know what life has in store for you. I am attractive and would never treat ANYONE that mean. I am nice to everyone. It takes more to being "hot" than what you look like. BUT like a lot of people already said, you did that poor guy a favor, IF he was even coming up to you.
2006-09-05 10:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by simolianturtle2 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The most beautiful or HOT woman in the world only has to open her mouth to show her true self. Is beauty only skin deep? It takes much more to complete that package. Who wants to be with a shallow stuck up witch? No matter how hot she might be?
2006-09-05 10:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He should have kept walking up to you and announced loudly, "This is a great example of a ball. All exterior with nothing on the inside".
You probably just past up another Bill Gates
2006-09-05 19:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by Wolfsbane 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one day you will be 70 years old with a crook hip ,no teeth,wrinkles from here to china , sitting alone in your house, with no one. while the unhot guy is celebrating with his friends and family is wife and kids ona successful and happy life on his
70th birthday..looks arent everything.
2006-09-05 10:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
That was pretty rude. You could have at least waited til he actually spoke to you.
Plus, how do you know he was actually coming up to you? Maybe there was another girl near you. Or, since you were standing at the bar, maybe he was just coming to get another drink.
2006-09-05 10:23:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋