i have fallen in love with my boss - initially he started chasing me although he had only been married 1year - he got kid i got kid - his mrs found out and kicked him out - but i cannot live with him yet cos of my personal circumstances - what do i do - feel bad but yet it wasnt my fault - if he would have left her for me would have proved that he loves me but because he got found out (that doesnt prove anything to me) what do i do need some advice
2006-09-05 10:11:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a new job and put some space between you and him, things will straighten themself out eventually, if it's meant to be and a sure thing you and him have going it will survive the test... and if it's not, it will give him and you both space to think about what you have done and to move on from there in putting your lives back in order.
2006-09-05 10:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by someone s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
End it now, before you get the kids more caught up. If he was chasing you while he was married, he's a cheater and you're the flavor of the month. You are right, the fact that he got busted and kicked out, does not mean that he would have left her for you. So do the right thing. Leave him alone and find a man all for you. Also, romance in the work place always blows up in your face. As my grandmother said; " don't mess where you eat."
2006-09-05 10:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by LAnewsman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a sticky situation. The both of you never should have gone this far, but sometimes you can't help what happens. All I have to say is that most relationships that start like this will usually not last. There is a saying, "once a cheater, always a cheater..." keep that in mind. Do you really want to have to worry about that with him the rest of your life? I think the both of you have caused enough hurt and damage on BOTH sides, that you should probably do the best thing and the right thing and move on.
2006-09-05 10:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun if he did it 2 u he will do it again, getting with some1 from work is a great way 2 hide an affair from a spouse, he prob had no intentions of getting caught, after all it would have to b really sumtin for a man to leave his wife and kid . wouldnt have anything to do with him, he is using you because what he really wants he cant have anymore! sorry 2 b so straight up!
2006-09-05 10:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
really sorry but you dont get my sympathy. If you knew he was married and he had a child then why did you start seeing him. STOP BEING SELFISH...ITS NOT ALL ABOUT YOU!!! Move on and find someone who is single.... this guy is no good imagine you was the wife at home looking after his child He has no respect for her so why would he treat you any better. MOVE ON
2006-09-05 10:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by cazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a boss who had an affair with his employee, I would say "Stay a million miles from him. It will all end in tears". I ruined a girl's life because of my selfish actions - actions I still regret fifteen years later
2006-09-05 10:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gheez, what's the question? Should you be seeing a married man with a child? No!!! You didn't even need to ask, did you? Find someone who is free and quit messing around with married men- even if they CHASE you. It's really no prize girl.
2006-09-05 10:16:46 · answer #7 · answered by gmpranis1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a complete mess. Leave him alone to sort his relationship out with his wife and child. If he ends up divorced and properly single then you can see if you have a future.
2006-09-05 10:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by jean m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm amazed how many people have to ask these questions!! obviously common sense is outmoded and Yahoo answers is now the way forward
2006-09-05 10:22:24 · answer #9 · answered by gadget_billericay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it and decide between the two of you where you go either together or on your own. guys are not always good at showing their true feelings remember that. Good luck and all the best
2006-09-05 10:16:11 · answer #10 · answered by missree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋