I am 24 years old and have been dating a beautiful and intelligent girl for about a year now. Everything is great, except I have a bizzare fetish that I don't want to tell her about. I get turned on by seeing women put to sleep, like with hypnosis or sleeping gas or chloroform. I just like watching them fall into a deep sleep. It is fantasy only, doing this in real life is terrible, and boreberline rapist. I just like fanstay or spy stories or a good hypnosis show. I like regular sex things to, the problem is I was wondering if I should mention this fetish to her and see if she would do some role play with me. It would be pretend only and she would pretend to sleep. Should I mention it or would it be too wierd? I am perfectly fien without it, but it would be a huge turn on. What are your opinions and do you think the fetish is weird?
2006-09-05 10:11:13 · 13 answers · asked by jimmyford26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, we all have our things that turn us on, don't listen to these lame-*** nay-sayers that try to act like puritans. You're perfectly normal. You wanna tell me that missionary every day for the next 60 years is exciting? Yawn...
Here's what you do: go rent a movie that has a favorite scene in it. Watch it with her, and when the scene comes up, tell her "you know, for some odd reason, that really turned me on. We should roleplay that sometime." If she totally freaks out (which she most likely won't) just back off and say that you were only being honest. Furthermore, tell her that you've never opened up to anyone about that fetish and that you felt like you could trust her by telling her. If she's as great as you think she is, she'll understand. She might even be into it. :-)
Remember confidence is key, if you squirm and cower, she might think you're joking. And whatever you do, don't get pissed at her or yourself if she's not into it. That's a part of life, and that's why there's pornography. Good luck!
2006-09-07 13:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ken 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
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If you want to get an edge in everyday communication and lead other people towards your goals this is a must read.
2014-09-24 12:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same fetish which I believe that for me stems from watching shows like Batman and wonder woman as a child in the 60s and 70s. Sleeping gas was used a lot then instead of guns and violence on TV. My fetish also extends to hypnosis and chloroform, as well as women smoking and girls in fog machines. I've been fortunate to have had understanding girlfriends and a wife who actually was open to it and had fun playing the part. Even using a fog machine during sex. It's a touchy subject though and I've not told all girlfriends for the same fear. It depended on the girl and how adventurous and open she was.
2015-12-26 05:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I thought that I have heard of every fetish out there, but that's a totally new one for me.
I think you should tell her, but only in the context of sharing each other's fantasies. Ask her to share first one of her fantasy or fetishes with you (or two of hers) and then tell her yours. This fantasy of yours is a bit unusual, so be prepared that at first she might be shocked or totally against it. Depending on how open-minded she is. However It could be a "you do mine, I'll do yours" type of situation. That could be a very good thing.
As long as no one gets hurt, I am a firm believer in "To Each his/her Own". For her to pretend that she is asleep isn't very bad, as long as she agrees to a somewhat rape fantasy. Some women won't. But again it just depends on what she is willing to do, and what her sexual fantasy might be with you. Good luck.
2006-09-05 10:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hypnosis Role Play
2016-12-18 07:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by mink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude but yeah i think the fetish is very weird! Everybody likes something different and alot of people like alot of weird things. I don't no your girl but check her personality because is u tell her u would like for her to pretend that she's asleep when u guys have sex she might think that she's doing something wrong in the bedroom! Why would u want someone to act like there asleep when Ur doin em? Talk about a dead f***!!!
2006-09-05 10:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whoa that is kinda weird there Mr. T. Bundy.
Keep that to yourself and check yourself in if you start looking for places to dump bodies.
2006-09-05 10:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by BadAdvice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try bondage instead, and you can use a blindfold, that should satisfy your fantasy just fine...you can also use some S&M ie spankings and the like, make sure to have a safe word, something that she says so that you know that she is ready to stop, any questions let me know..;)>
2006-09-05 10:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Trying getting to that slowly. Do other role playing and then ask.
By the way I hope you're not a dentist, are you? lol
2006-09-05 10:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should tell her....have a couple glasses of wine first!
2006-09-05 10:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by whoanelly00 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋