I have started to get to know him, and I have been totally honest with him, I have a child and he Knows of this. What I wonder is he just looking for a mum sub or is there any relationships out there like this, that are stayers.
2006-09-05 10:09:04 · 21 answers · asked by kildarababe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A friend of ours is sixteen years older than her husband and just had a baby, she is 41. The guy admitted at first he was just looking to get laid but fell in love with her and now they are a happy couple. Some will fail and some will succeed, good luck and I truly hope you succeed.
2006-09-05 10:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by loser 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok let me tell you iam 23 and when I was 19 I dated somebody 30 and it lasted a year and a half. When I was 21 i dated someone thirty six and it lasted a year. Now I wont tell you why the first relationship did not work because it is a disgustingly gross situation that she caused and has passed away now. The second relationship though I didnt fight hard enough for and I should of it was my fault. Both of these relationships were two of the best I have ever had with ups and downs of course. It IS POSSIBLE but I reccomend you evaluate your situation first and make sure that is what you want. I mean there is never going to be that level of acceptance you want there to be and I dont know how you would react to that. Then you have to ask yourself more importantly what is he in the relationship for??? I told you it can work that doesnt mean thats what he wants. Is he a good fit to bring around your child , all these are x factors, it would completely change your life. Iam telling you from experience there is no better feeling being with someone thats older and knows what your going through but it can be disaster.
2006-09-05 17:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by bibby6914 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 33 my man is 27 today we have been together for 4 yrs have a 1 year old girl i had a kid when i met him she is now 17 and i adopted a baby girl she is 3 we met by phone line we plan on getting married next year and things are good we have ups and down like every couple but im not going no where and neither is he so try to work things out with him and see how it goes you never know
2006-09-05 17:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 38 and my lover is 26...we've been together for 2 years...it's possible to be in a relationship when their is an age difference.
2006-09-05 17:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by simplepleasure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
24 is more than old enough to have got past the sex thing, i think, i hope anyway. And i am sure you would notice if he wanted you as a sub mom. I hope you ain't doing his washing because that would be an indication.
2006-09-05 17:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Coley61 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd like to know what a milf is. I think there are a few but it's not to likely that either of you would make it together. No way of knowing if he is looking for a mum not knowing him.
2006-09-05 17:15:55 · answer #6 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember when I was in my 20's. I wanted to tap every hot older women that I met, I wasn't interested in younger women until I was in my mid 30's. Older women are still hot though.
2006-09-05 17:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it he wouldn't be there if he didn't want to men can't get forced into anything. You go girl!
A friend of mine has been with a guy 10 years younger than her & they are solid. He'd do anything for her.
2006-09-05 17:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why shouldnt it work he is obviously attracted to you and wants a relationship with you. Enjoy yourselves and stop looking for problems. If its meant to be it will work and if not you will have fun trying.
2006-09-05 17:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by jean m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, welcome to the real world, Enjoy it for today, nice memory to take with you into old age, don't bother thinking it is for the future, it is here today, real for today,take every second, you are lucky. Tomorrow, is another day!!!!!
2006-09-05 17:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by learned_old_sage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋