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Question

hi i am so lost i like this boy so much and my mate is haveing a party but the thing is how do i make him notice me. i have the perfect outfit and i am not ugly (not in a vain way) but i just want to find a way to like get in the moment with him (we are all stayin the night) i am 15 nearly 16 please help

Answer 1

Best way is to be yourself. Be confident, look at yourself in the mirror and remind yourself of how nice you are, why wouldn't he like you? you would like you! You've got to try to speak for him and try and find what interests him. Or ask your mate what his interests are. Ask questions around what he appears to like to talk about and look very, very interested in what he's saying, don't you do all the talking. People love talking about themselves. Also remember to smile a lot, even if you're nervous and don't feel like it, you must, it's what he'll see. You will seem more approachable if you smile a lot, everybody likes a smiler. Try to appear friendly and easy going. And my last advice is, don't get drunk! or he'll never take you seriously, he'll just laugh at you. Good luck! If it's of any help we've all been there. I'm sure you'll have a fab time whatever you do. And remember if it doesn't work out with him, it's because it just wasn't meant to be!

Answer 2

This is the best help you'll ever get, so I hope you pay close attention. It's apparent that boys are distracting you from your studies at school. Please, before you do something you'll regret, stick with studying hard, getting the best grades you can so that you can graduate with your class. It's really hard out in the real world, and you'll be grown up before you know it. Though I know that each day seems like and eternity in teen years, it's truly just a blink, when you get to be my age. It seems like not too long ago, I was having similar thoughts when I was in high school. I'm not saying you shouldn't have fun and be friends. But just keep it friendly. Look around you, at your other girlfriends. How many are pregnant, or sexually active and could possibly be pregnant as we speak? I've said this to many girls in your same situation...be careful what you wish for...you just might get it...and so much more that you didn't expect. Please be careful. Trust me, you have plenty of time to find the right fella...after you and the fella matures fully. <*)))><

Answer 3

Since this outfit is so great, walk right up to him and tell him how great he looks and how glad u are he is at the party then do a little spin to show off your outfit and lead him to the refreshment table to start the conversation

Answer 4

Please be careful what you do and don't be so desperate, he may very well notice you, either by being absolutely embarrassed by your puppy ways... and not fancy you at all, and want to shake you off his back for fear his mates will laugh.

Or... he may like the attention, not really fancy you, but see you as an easy lay... and like secretly showing off that he can pull... and take advantage of your naivity at the party, because you are so keen... and then, he may well boast to everyone at school, and everyone you know... how easy you were... and where would that leave you, in the cold light of next day?

It could even leave you pregnant!

You are so very young and this first love, is quite a normal feeling, it happens to us all as we grow up, that painfully agonising unrequited love, when the object of our heart never notices that we exist... and oh, how it seems like the end of the world, doesn't it?

What you don't know though, is that someone else has that very same feeling over you, oh yes they do... someone you have never cast one look back at... some nice young lad is longing for you to look his way... and his heart is breaking too, because you never see him.

How do I know this?

Easy, it's called life experience... been there.. done that... got the tee shirt... since I was young and very pretty once and many rogues chased after me... and oh yes... I chose the rogues, the smouldering dark haired dark eyed Heathcliffes... and I can assure you now... it wasn't worth it... because they broke my heart over and over again... and then years down the line, I lost count of all the lovely lads who knew me well from our estate, from school, from youth club, from first job... who told me as grown men, how much they had adored me... and how hurt they were, how dejected and broken hearted, that way back then, I never even noticed them at all.

They all said how aloof I was... how I terrified them... how they feared to approach me... and the awful thing is that, most of them, turned out to be the best of husbands, dads, and granddads... and the men I chose did not!

Walk slowly into life, don't run too fast just yet... let this lad notice you and don't let him know you even see him... don't wear your heart on your sleeve... just smile if he looks your way and then look away again... and if he's worth his salt, he may seek you out, he may even wait until you're both older to ask you out, and you and he could be like my best friend and her husband... first love, school time sweethearts... only one love each... and still together after 42 years, and after their own kids have grown and gone;-)

I'm alone... and she is not... she waited... slowed it down... I ran too fast... so who's the winner ay?

Answer 5

just be yourself. wear the outfit that you have in mind, and at the party start a conversation with the guy you like.just remember to be yourself though. do something nice to your hair and maybe wear some make up-opt for a smoky eye or a neutral=those work the best, accesorize, and wear something that this guy would not expect you to wear-not in a bad way. i hope that helps.

Answer 6

First ask yourelf are you ready to be noticed? Because when he starts to notice oyu it might be in a sexual way and he may wants sex. Just tell a friend at the party to tell him you said whats up. simple as that and then he will come to you and you take it from there.

Answer 7

Just be yourself and try to involve him/yourself in a conversation. Don't be too clingy and don't laugh hysterically at everything he says. Just send out the vibe to him, make eye contact, and try to get him to look at you.

Here's another way to show you like him, if he asks to get you a drink (soda, juice or alcoholic) say yes, and when he hands you the drink, intentionally grab his fingers with the drink.

Answer 8

Just hang around and have a good time. He's more likely to notice a confident happy girl having a great time than a desperado with her tongue hanging out.

Answer 9

Be your self don't come off to sluty. Go up and talk to him ask him if he wants to go for a walk or sit on the porch and talk. If he drives ask him to take you to the store to pick up a few last minute things for the party.

Answer 10

well the thing is dear you dont have to try not to be all stuck up but for example me i dont have to try. usually when i like a guy he will notice me i dont know i guess i am that good. Just dont try to hard for a guy its nothing unless it iis absoulutyley necesarry hey ok ill give you one tip Smile at him guys like cute little smiles and make it flirty if you want :) it will work believe me get close to him as well good luck !!