I have this problem with messing around with unavailable men. What is my problem? I only find out they are with someone else after the fact. I'm not a whore or anything, i don't put myself out there i just don't know what the hell is the problem...serious answers only
2006-09-05 09:49:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're probably just having bad luck. Stick with it and everything will work itself out. However you might want to ask the person if they're involved with someone else before the fact. Just be straightforward.
2006-09-05 09:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok honestly and completely serious. I just think you have really bad luck picking guys, and well no offense but maybe you aren't taking enough time to get to know them. I mean before you go off dating the next guy, make sure that he is truly available, your not a sl*t if you go off with unavailable guys. It's not smart because you then have to question whom does he like/love more. And that bring the problem also in on how you feel about that. You'd only be a sl*t if you were just sleeping around with taken men instead of seeking a serious relationship. But well really you can't just solve the problem. The only way to help avoid it so much is to just be alot more attentive to who you date.
2006-09-05 09:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then your probably not taking enough time to get to know them or your settling for too little from them. If they are taken then that means they probably dont see you that often being that they have to be with their gf/wife. If you just take more time before messing around with them this wont happen. If they are taken then there is only one thing they are looking for from you. Dont give it and they will leave.
2006-09-05 09:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like a whore to me lol.
spend more time before you break off the cookie.
pay attention to when the next man have to leave when he comes by and if he always seems to be looking over his shoulders. that's a give away he taken.
2006-09-05 09:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by geminidrums 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try to find out more information about the person before you start fooling around with them. But you should cut it off as soon as you find out they are involved.
2006-09-05 09:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long is it before you give in...it shouldn't be very hard to tell whether a man is involved with someone...do they give you their home number...are you even inviting you over to their home...stop giving in to these men and take the time to get to know them.
2006-09-05 09:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by simplepleasure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur a liar. Your other question said your 14, then one after that said your 19, which means your probably 12
2006-09-05 09:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try asking them before things go to far if there avialable to see you on a regular basis before you think about playing. Simple!!
2006-09-05 09:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by yankeecowboy10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well leave that man alone and any others that has a woman leave Aids alone and Stds alone and wait for the right man
2006-09-05 10:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by giggi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about getting to know the guy for real, before you let him see your insides? HMM!! There's a start!
2006-09-05 09:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by qtiebabie06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋