Is a dinner and a movie for your first date with a guy still an oldie but a goody? Or would you prefer a more Au vanguard approach? Were you break from the norm and try something that allows you to spend more time talking to each other. Example I thought dinner should stay but instead of a movie how about... Poetry or a friendly game of pool. Maybe even a walk through Manhattan at night? You know the kind of night were there is just a slight chill in the air and I've got to put my arms around you for warmth.
2006-09-05 09:41:46 · 14 answers · asked by omenus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the first date you want to pick activities where you can be together and have the oppurtunity to talk... go to dinner, golfing, on a walk, maybe to a festival or something thats going on in the community. Find out her hobbies and likes and take her to a function where you can find out more about her!
2006-09-05 09:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes dinner and drinks is an oldies but definitely a goodie. I prefer to see a movie on the second or third date (or later). For a first date, I want dinner and a walk, or go to a art show/museum. Maybe even dancing or playing pool after dinner. On first dates, I want to talk and get to know my date, and with movies you can't communicate, and can't talk with each other. So any of your suggestions I think will be a hit with a girl on a first date, especially to get to know her better.
Good luck.
2006-09-05 16:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a dinner and a movie work ok for the first date but if you think of more creative activities it means more going for a walk could be cool but i think best if you simply walked to the destination nearby to a poetry jam or a comedy club would be great to have some laughs and be closer-plus its something to talk about for your next date shes going to think you're fun and relaxed dude but most importantly-considerate
2006-09-05 16:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by desireddisease15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think going to a place where you get the opportunity to talk is better than a movie, like a gallery. Pool is an awesome date.
2006-09-05 16:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dinner, yes.
playing pool, really godd idea.
walking at night, perfect if you really feel a connection by then and if she is fine with it.
Just no poetry unless it's a romantic poem, or if poetry is something that she really likes.
2006-09-05 16:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a movie no chance to talk. Dinner and walk is good
2006-09-05 16:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would skip dinner too
just do something cool and original, like go to a comedy and laugh your asses out and than talk some more over a huge iceream and coffe, or get drunk or go to a festival or a party (in a pub or something) or a concert
live a little
go crazy!
u need to impress her, of corse, but u don't need to lie or pretend u are something else
2006-09-05 16:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by ADA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes dinner gives you a chance to really get to know each other and a movie gives you something to be interested in together (if you dont really know each other) and conversate about
2006-09-05 16:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes no movie unless it a second or third and pick a scary movie when you do go 2 one cause then shell freak out and hold on2 u/ hold u real close and u can slip ure arm around her and hold her CLOSE TO U
2006-09-05 16:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by wolfy's_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dinner an excellent place to start---yes skip the movie---not condusive to talking---possibly a visit to a coffee house afterward---very good for talking
2006-09-05 16:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋