Me and my ex broke up about a year ago. But as soon as we broke up i started to see someone else. he was very mad, so i ended braking up with the other guy. here it is a year later and if i talk to some other guy we fight about it. its so confusing because one day were talking and everything is fine and he's saying you know i love you your the only one for me, then the next day its like i hate you i know you messing around with other guy ect. But the way i see it is we aren't together so i can talk to anyone i want to right. But everytime i start to move on he start back up with this whole i love you thing. what do i do? help please.
2006-09-05 09:29:54 · 8 answers · asked by ~* NISE *~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is so dysfunctional.
Its been a year since a break-up?
I think that he's got you in his corner,and you don't want to come out.
Yet,nothing good is coming from this relationship.
Is this what you want? Ask yourself this...and then you can figure it all out.
2006-09-05 09:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by starrdevine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's toying with you honey, or else he needs to get his act together. Tell him to decide once and for all if you two are going to be a couple again, and if he says no move on and DONT LOOK BACK. Just dont talk to him. If he says yes, give it one last shot, but you've gotta stop taking this bull**** from him.
2006-09-05 16:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by flipqueen99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant ask us if its over. Its up to you. Do you want to be in a relationship with this guy. If not, tell him straight out, listen its over and we are not together so I have the right to date anyone I want. You might just have to cut him out of your life completely otherwise he might just try to dictate you for the rest of your life. He likes to have the control over you, whether your dating him or not. You think if a guy has control over a girl he is not even dating he is not going to continue doing what he is doing. Of course he is. You are his safety net. STOP BEING HIS NET! You might lose a really good guy over this. Is it worth it?
2006-09-05 16:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a clean break and tell him you are not interested in him. go a while with out looking for another boyfriend and he will know its not that you have some one else its that you do not want him ever again.
Sex does not solve everything or anything and makes matters worse.
2006-09-05 16:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just got back with him
why are u still lingering each other if u dont want to be with him
obviously he wants u
so either u take him back or stop misleading him
2006-09-05 16:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he has not moved on and doesn't want you to move on either but why should you wait. I would move on and talk to other guys, date other guys, etc.
2006-09-05 16:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by angie1412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , it's over, so tell him you are going to move on and do it. He can't have his cake and eat it too.
2006-09-05 16:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have sex together, that's the problem ...
2006-09-05 16:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋