My ole man has a daughter that's 11. I don't want her to think I'm tryin' to take her Daddy. The 2 of us (THE DAUGHTER) are developing a great relationship. Should I put the brakes on, wait til we're married? Have known him thru mutual friends casually for the past several years. We met on a different level & have been inseparable...He IS the one!
2006-09-05 09:21:02 · 9 answers · asked by luvmabell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you and his daughter are developing a good relationship, thats great. Keep doing whatever you're doing. Make sure you include her in the wedding when it gets closer.
How soon are you planning on marring him? 3 months seems really sudden even if you have know eachother for a while...you've only been together for 3 months. Just make sure you are really thinking things through before you make any massive commitments
2006-09-05 09:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by reena_ree86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to speak with his daughter.
i'm in a very similar situation. we've been together for 3 years now and we are now just making plans to move in together.
you and your ole man, as you said, also will have to specific discussions when it comes to discipline as well.
Lots of good books on step-parenting out there. I STRONGLY suggest you purchase one and read it thoroughly.
2006-09-05 16:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by Wayne 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should really wait and talk to the daughter if the relationship is going to work then if you wait it will still work
2006-09-05 16:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you know your getting married then keep smiling. and don,t change
2006-09-05 16:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by RIchard H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do yourself and the girl a favor---wait 1 year---then move in
2006-09-05 16:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
think about the daughter before yourselves...she's the one that will hurt the most if ya'll don't make it!
2006-09-05 16:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You mean you are ready to get a banging?
God for it.
2006-09-05 16:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
take it slow, for her sake if nothing else
2006-09-05 16:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by welsh_witch_sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go all the way he won't marry you until you have sex
2006-09-05 16:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by NICK G 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋