Too soon and the womans too easy.... too long and shes frigid?
2006-09-05 09:19:55 · 49 answers · asked by PEP 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about playing it hard or too easy, just go out have fun and enjoy the time out if he puts pressure at the end of the night and you don't feel comfortable simply tell him that. Sex is for both to enjoy and a very responsable act if after a week you feel like wanting some have it if not don't.
2006-09-05 09:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by omar g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's something where there is no easy answer. If he's only after sex, he'll wait as long as nescessary to get what he wants then go. If he's really looking for a relationship then a couple of weeks, but that's works both ways. You both wait until the time is right, could be a few days to a few months, like I said no easy answer. Depends on the two people.
2006-09-05 09:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by pampurredpuss 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The Rules are simple, if he is red blooded & your worth waiting for:
1) The moment you let him.
2) The moment he persuades you.
3) The moment you get drunk enough that he feels he isn’t taking advantage.
4) The moment you both get drunk & he’s forgot he was supposed to be waiting
5) The moment his hands fall off and he can’t wait any longer.
2006-09-05 09:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Clueless 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband waited 4 months, and when we got married he told me on our wedding day that waiting was part of the reason he married me. Everyone is different though. I'd say a month, after 4-6 dates. Get to know him. I really liked my husband when I met him and I didn't want sex to spoil it.
2006-09-05 09:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by GreenEyedSista 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always have a 2-3 week/ 4 date policy. I go on at least 4 dates (including just hanging out) and wait at least 2 weeks. If you get to date 3 and are having a hard time holding out... Then DONT SHAVE YOUR LEGS>... NO GIRL will sleep with a guy for the FIRST time without shaving her legs... Good luck!
2006-09-05 09:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead and get it if she wants you to have but a real man who isnt really in for sex would wait a couple of weeks.
2006-09-05 09:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever both parties are ready, hopefully, dinner, candles, gifts and good company should ensure some success early on, but failing that make her laugh and get her comfortable in your presence..
2006-09-05 09:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by Claire F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 minutes thats not too easy or frigid
2006-09-05 09:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mike R 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Longest I have waited is 7 months....but that lady had more to offer than just sex, she was great company and good partner.
2006-09-05 09:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by BenignSource 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She should make him wait until she's ready. Sex is serious business and she or him for that matter should not be jumping into anything just for the sake of it.
2006-09-05 09:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋