Would you find it more normal or more acceptable to have your man masturbate to a magazine or porn dvd.... or to do it thinking of his own fantasies and private thoughts from his mind?
2006-09-05 09:12:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fantasies....and if he happens to tell me them...i just make them come true
2006-09-05 09:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by jaxxie1982 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its more normal for a guy to just look at porn. No offense to males but it just seems alot easier for them to look at a magazine than to think of a senario in their heads to put themselves in. My man looks at porn or I tell him a fantasy of mine while he masturbates to it. I guess I feel more comfortable that way cuz I can control or at least know what hes getting off on.
2006-09-05 16:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by Monica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say it's necessarily more normal or acceptable, but I think it's much more creative for him to masturbate from his own fantasies and thoughts. It lets him explore more and pinpoint exactly what it is he wants, whereas magazines and pornos are superficial things that countless men look at.
2006-09-05 16:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it should matter....Too many people I know {predominately women} have put too much emphasis on cheating.....I don't think masturbating to a film/magazine should go into the "cheating category" and I personally think it's quite normal.
If your having sex behind my back....That's cheating....and I'll do 2 things to get even, I'll definitely drop you like a bad habit....But before I do I'm gonna have sex with someone you know {and I'll do my best to make sure it's with someone that will just totally break your heart when you find out, and I'll make sure you do}
But other than that I'm a pretty nice girl....lol!
2006-09-05 16:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find it to be more normal for a man to masturbate period, i think men have masturbated to both porn and fantasies.
2006-09-05 16:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by angie1412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
own fantasies and private thoughts, but either one is acceptable seeing as how, i do both myself
2006-09-05 16:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever works for him. sometimes it's easier if you have an actual visual - i prefer movies though, you can hear sounds and see the movement. as long as he wasn't doing instead of giving me some of that action, i wouldn't (and don't) care.
2006-09-05 16:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
private thoughts
2006-09-05 23:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by jane f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His mind and hopefully he would be thinking about great sessions with the two of us.
2006-09-05 16:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any of the above. Along as another woman isn't helping him.
2006-09-05 16:16:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think both are normal
2006-09-05 16:14:14 · answer #11 · answered by ImSpoilednLoveit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋