How do I react to his proposal. I really believe he was sincere, he's not the kind to just say things for a reaction. Although we He told me that he has always regreted that we broke up (my choice) and how he never new to tell me his feelings of wishing we were still together. That when he was truck driving out of state (he no longer does) that I was the only one he would think of.
We were out w/his father that night (Sunday) and when I was alone with his father, he told me how he hopes I become his daughter n law. This makes me think they've been talking.
Toward the end of the night, when we were alone, he asked me to marry him but I didn't answer and basically I said that we'd see how things go. I would say, he was the love of my life.
I have been dating someone else for the last 3 years and this could be why he didn't express himself sooner until now that I am no longer with this other person. Should I bring this up again or let him??
2006-09-05 09:03:02 · 5 answers · asked by wonderer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do love him but because I have not been really dating him for 3 years now, I can't say yes to him just yet. Even in just 3 years people can change. BUT, the question really has me like in WOW..it's something I would have always wanted to hear from him.
I'm now 38, we broke up because of my crazy fault. I was insecure and very jealous, and he does not like jealousy at all. I really exploded on him one day and asked him to move out.
About 8 months after our break up i started dating someone else. Since the other guy wouldn't budge or take me back when I'd ask. He just didn't like the jealous rage I threw and it really freaked him out.
Since then I have always seen where I messed up, and out of all the guys I've dated, he was truly the one to have been trusted. When I accused him he really didn't defend himself..guess he thought I was nuts, and that made me even more upset.
Do I ask him was he sure of what he asked me, since we had been drinking when he said it?
2006-09-05 09:20:01 · update #1
He had been drinking but again, it's not like lke him to just say things..he's never been good at expressing himself. So this was a big WOW to me.
Guess I should wait a couple weeks and bring it up. I can't just not ever bring it up, because what if he thinks that means my answer was no, and he becomes too afraid to ask me again.
I think I would marry him but I'm still in too much shock to stay yes just yet. WOW!
2006-09-05 09:25:20 · update #2
Depends on why you broke up and if he has truely changed. Think of all the bad times with him and ask yourself if you are sure it would never happen again. If you want to give him a chance, then date him for a good long time before rushing into marriage.
2006-09-08 13:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you dated him again after you guy broke up? You probably the only one who know the best of this answer..but let's me try.. what is the reason you broke up with him..you said it your choice..so if that reason is still exist.. I probably think twice of marrying him.. however, let time go by for a while and see if he still bringing it up or not..or else if you really sure ..you can ask him then.. Good luck
2006-09-05 16:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's an ex for a reason, and u made a choice. Why did u break up? In very rare cases I could understand, and no1 is perfect. How old r u?
2006-09-05 16:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him yes, but if you say yes you need to know what your doing,if you need time take it, if he really loves you he will understand and he will be patiently awaiting, but be honest with him too.
2006-09-05 16:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him?
2006-09-05 16:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋