2006-09-05 08:52:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Dogs
i know it is hard i lost my dog a few months ago and its hard to try and stop thinking adout it but after a while you will get better and might start talking about himand wont get as sad as before but sometimes i still cry and it is hard and i totally feel you and im sorry that he died and im sure he was a great dog! but you might think your heart is empty but no it wont be it will never be empty because you still love him so he will always be in your heart and heres a little thing that you should read every day!
its called rainbow bridge
when an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here,that pet goes to rainbow bridge. there are meadows and hills for all our special friends so they can run and play together. there is plenty food and water and sunshineand our friends are worm and comfortable. all the animals who had been ill and old are restored tohealth and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again,just as we remember them in our dreams has gone by. the animalsare happy and content,exept for one small thing they each miss somene very speacial to them who had to be left behind. they all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. his bright eyes are intent his eager body begins to quiver. suddenly he begins to run from the group,flying his legs faster and faster. you have been spotted,and when you and your special friend finnally meet you cling together in your joyous reaunion never to be parted again. your happy kisses rain aponyour face your hands again carless the beloved head,and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
then you crose the rainbow bridge together.......
i hped i helped i was in tears when i read it so maybe it will help you it sure helped me! and im sorry that happened i hope you feel better soon!
2006-09-05 11:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by dogloverfv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My deepest sympathy. My dog died at the beginning of the year, while I was away from home. I was very sad. Nothing can replace your dog. Getting a new puppy might work for a while, but you will always remember your first dog. I would advice you to take a moment and think of all the good times you and your dog had together. Have a good cry and thank the lord for lending him/her to you. I am truly sorry for your loss.
2006-09-05 16:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very hard to loose a pet. I have much sympathy for you. You just need to get some time away for a while. Go visit a family member or just take some time by yourself like camping or a spa resort or something. Maybe you could get another dog or pet...? It would make you feel much better.
2006-09-05 16:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by danca4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sad for you! It's good to just let yourself cry, if you can! (Some people think you need to be "strong" so they won't let themselve cry-that's stupid!) If you try to hold in the grief, it'll just come out in other, negative ways. We're close to losing our 13-year-old dog...and I know it'll hit me hard! You'll get through it, though.
2006-09-05 15:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww...sorry to hear! That's a normal reaction. Try to remember the good times you had with your dog. It does get better.
2006-09-05 16:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with your emotions-you wouldn't be human-as I see it-if you didn't feel loss. Pets become family members to ALOT of people, and there is nothing wrong with grieving for them. That honors them, I think. I know it is very difficult right now, and painful. My heart goes out to you!
2006-09-05 16:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy56@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to loose a pet, why don't you go do something fun like paintball, rock climb, rafting or camping. Take some time you'll be ok.
2006-09-05 15:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, I am a dog lover too. I have lost a few pets, and I found it helps to just talk to someone.I always wonder how my dog would feel if she knew I was crying about her. I know your dog loves you and wants to be happy. Please cheer up!!
2006-09-05 16:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My condolences. depending on your situation for those greaving over a pet and not getting over it. I saw another question that the best answer was... to get another puppy.. to fill the void. Best wishes.
2006-09-05 15:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its horrible to lose a pet. Take your time to grieve for your lose and you will be OK. I've been there as have most of us. We share your pain.
2006-09-05 16:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by frecklzface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋