i never really told him how i feel. he wants me back. i just keep ignoring him. but looking back on the situation i want to get it off my chest. will sending a nasty text make me feel better? or wiil it just let him know i am still thinking of him?
2006-09-05 08:49:48 · 35 answers · asked by jay dee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he still wants you, he's going to think you're doing it for attention. Just let it be.
2006-09-05 08:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by qtiebabie06 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sending something like a text or a e-mail may seem like a great idea but so many statements can be taken the wrong way, plus it really isn't a respectful way to interact with someone, especially someone that you used to have a relationship with.
I know you hate him, but you should take the higher road and tell him to his face how you feel. Not only will he get the message straight from you, he will see how you have moved on and matured past him. Your relationship will end definitively on YOUR terms.
Plus if you text, he can draw it out for a really long time which will only make you more angry. Just take care of it now like ripping off a band aid and you won't have to deal with it again because you are 100% putting it past you.
2006-09-05 08:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about writing a letter? I know a little old fashioned, but I believe that way it's not as impersonal as a text and the person can read it and not interupt you if you were talking to him face to face.
Sending the nasty text will make you feel good for about an hour afterwards then the guilt will set in!
Good luck.
2006-09-05 09:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by Amazing Magenta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste the money on a text!! Do what I did, sit down and pour your heart out on paper put everything you're feeling BUT DON'T POST IT! keep it for a while and re-read it when you need to have a good cry. When you feel ready, tear it in to a million pieces and post the bits to him!!!! (see if he's any good at jigsaws!!) I learnt a while back not to hate my ex, I feel indifferent towards him, I wouldn't like to waste an emotion on him, and hate is a very destructive emotion!!
Chin up gal!!! this will all be a distant memory one day!!
2006-09-05 09:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your last sentence answers your question. I doubt I have ever told anyone I was involved with the real reason why I was breaking up with them.
Being nasty anytime is just a poor reflection of you. Keep the upper hand. If you really don't like him and the poor way he treated you, why educate him on how to change his ways? Move on and leave him to repeat his shortcomings. You deserve better but you will never hear him say it! good luck!
2006-09-05 08:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no stop right there don't txt or contact him in no way because he will think that he is right and that you are still thinking about him. If you want to get it off your chest talk about it with a best friend or something and move on there's a big wide world out there go discover it. all the best
2006-09-05 08:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by missree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really need to tell him how you feel don't do it by text. You will get no closure from that. This is something you need to do in person. that way nothing will be lost in translation. Just remember you will never know how it will turn out.
2006-09-05 09:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by jue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, because it will start a bitter fight and you'll get sour! it's not a very nice feeling!!
my opinion is that if he's really THAT immature just ignore him, however hard it is! he'll soon get bored and hopefully find a new gf to annoy... the poor gurl!! lolz
Hope this helps!!
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2006-09-05 08:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥Niamh♥♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would make you feel beter,but for what reason would you go out of your way for someone you hate, It's really not worth it in the long run, hes not worth your time.
2006-09-05 08:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it will make you feel better and it will also let him know you are thinking of him.
i wouldn't even bother wasting anymore time thinking of him if you hate him that much move on with your life don't give him the satisfaction of you even showing anymore emotion towards him
2006-09-05 08:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by ♥fluffykins_69♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋