2006-09-05 08:33:07 · 14 answers · asked by phil5775 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Paranioa. Insecurity. Past experiance. Self-esteem - hers. Self esteem - yours. You're better tooled to answer this than anyone.
2006-09-05 08:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love speaks from the heart. If you don't feel it, its usually just words filling in the partners insecurities. Sometimes women say it simply because they want to hear you say it.
As you get older you have to take what a women says with a grain of salt. Its a women's prerogative to change their mind about just about anything and its a guys prerogative to stay a man-boy and say a do stupid things. Its how we all are programmed!
My point is simple. Look for the small things she does for you to rate her care for you and put much less value in the words she uses. Women are always giving hints!
2006-09-05 15:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be one of those people with issues - like one of your parents didn't pay enough attention to you or you felt abandoned, which means you are one of those people that no one can ever love enough and you will always doubt them. the best thing you can do is get counseling to resolve whatever is bugging you, because otherwise your relationships will never last - everyone will eventually get sick of your neediness.
2006-09-05 15:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you have doubts due to circumstances that may have happened or maybe she is not mature enough for this relationship? Why don't you two sit down and talk to each other about what your feelings are?
2006-09-05 15:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by cubanredhead35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well eye connection. if she has eye connection when she tells you she loves you it's true....if she's lookin down or lookin around she's lyin. Other signal...if she's pauses and looks ditracted when she saying those words...it ain't true, nothing but lies......she's probably wants to stay with you cause of money, your cute, or she's using you to get ur brother/friends!!?
2006-09-05 15:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by sexy_ndn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two possible reasons:
Your intuitions are right--she does not love you
you struggle w/self-esteem and trust issues
2006-09-05 15:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by hopscothchbunnies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your not speaking her love language
2006-09-05 15:36:19 · answer #7 · answered by ukfansc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you cheating on her? sometimes you dont trust them because you dont trust yourself-you know that you can cheat/are cheating so you know that they could be doing the same thing. maybe you are insecure.
2006-09-05 15:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you know she doesn't and she's just trying to be nice and not hurt you.
2006-09-05 15:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she doesn't. She's at my house right...oh...you didn't want me to tell him? *Rustles around* Ok...no...do it right...ooooOoOoO...right there. Sweet! Wait...what?
2006-09-05 15:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by zetser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋