there is a girl in my college i like her very much and there were many times when even she looked at me but we both turned away i dont know whether she likes me or not
bcoz she does not respond to my signals
but today during the break when i was roaming just in the campus she was following me and when i entered the class she said s h i t and went to other place
my friends say that she likes me and the whole class knows it but she is quite a bold and i am a shy guy in these matters only
i tried to ask her but in vainmeans i jusst couldnt dare go infront of her plz give me some serious replies on what should i do plz help me
2006-09-05 08:27:38 · 43 answers · asked by might 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
her name is vinita she sits on the last bench of fyjc science B.N.Bandodkar college and looks hot in any dress
2006-09-05 11:12:41 · update #1
now i have one more prob
all answers are very good and i want my 3 pts back what shall i do
2006-09-06 00:32:38 · update #2
ok so bottomline is you dont have confidence and you are wary of refusal and most importantly afraid of becoming a fool in front of your class. I know this is gross, but the fact remains.
Now there are two possibilities:
1. she got to know that you have hots for her so is openly flirting with you but may not be serious.
2. She likes you....In anycase you have a wonderful chance of making her your friend. How? The girls like surprises. So the day when she is looking very beautiful to you, casually go to her when she is alone and say " hey!! u looking pretty" a big smile and then say something funny like "so you were chasing me the other day???"..taking her completely off guard..believe me its going to work. Dont ask for any date, dont say that you like her , just casual chat and leave her thinking and wondering. All the best :)
2006-09-05 16:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by shan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that yeah you are both shy but **** your in college and if one doesnt like you then theres like so many out there. Ask her out to dinner a movie anything. See if she wants to hang out. Ask her what plans does she have for this weekend and if she doesnt have plans then ask her if she wants to do something with you. Don't be shy. Sometimes girls like that but most of the time they want someone who they can talk to and someone that could make them laugh. She probably wants to talk to you too but she's waiting for you to make the move. Thats the way I used to be cause I too am in college and if I'm not interested I would give a smile but I wouldn't mislead anyone. Most girls won't give a guy a smile. But me being the nice person that I am I give a friendly smile not a flirtatious smile. Anyhow don't wait around make your move and if she's not interested then go on to the next. Don't let that lower your self esteem. And please stop being so shy! OKay good luck to you.
2006-09-05 08:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by nympho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going for serious studies OR getting so upset about the unknown person to make another relationship. Just think of your parents, who have really worked hard to put you in this college. Just concentrate on your studies, instead wasting time in immaterial things. This is not the right age. First be something and then look for someone. May be I am too harsh, but this is the fact of life, people look up to only those people who are really successfull in this world now. This is just an advise, take it or leave it. Decision is yours.
2006-09-05 18:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by reema 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Believe me, if she is that bold, she would already have asked you out.
2. She has already put out the bold feelers to your friends, to let you know indirectly that it's okay to ask her out.
3. I think it's safe to say that she will move on, because by now she has probably concluded that you are not interested, since you haven't taken the bait.
4. Here's my piece of advice to you about life: What's the worse that can happen? NO. Big deal. No one bats a 1000, but you get better with practice. Now go out and practice!
2006-09-05 08:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by mitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, dont fret. All you have to do is NEVER show her that you are intimidated or shy. just have confidence in yourself. i know that is old to hear, but in everything you do, just keep your chin up, keep a sly grin on your face and just tell youself that you are THE MAN! nobody else, JUST YOU. if you throw a paper from across the room to the trash can, dont let the thought of you missing enter your mind, have it in your mind that the paper has nowhere else to go but in the trash... you get what Im saying? And when she walks by you, dont let the thought of her thinking you are anything but a PIMP enter you mind... keep total confidence in yoursefl and that chick will eventually walk up to you and talk to you, and if not, who cares, dont even think about it, because there will other chicks noticing your new found confidence and will be attractedto you. so you wont even have time for the loser girl that likes to play games.
2006-09-05 08:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On;y one way to find out for sure. Just ask. At worst she will say no and then you can go back to focusing on your class. Women love confidence too. A girl may have never thought about you before and just asking her or making the first move provokes a lot of interest from women. Just ask her.
2006-09-05 08:31:31 · answer #6 · answered by sdo3lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, sounds like you really like her. I think you should talk to her. I know your shy, but that's ok, actually most men are. Alot of guysthat I've met have told me later they wanted to talk to me but were to nervous. Women love condfident men. And besides, we are totally flattered when a guy comesupand wants to talk with us. Ask her to lunch, or just start up a conversation with her. This is the beginning of the school smester, if you like her and she does not like you wouldn't you want to know right now? IF she does not like you it would be better to know either way so that you can find the right person and not spend so much time, being shy on the side.....Good luck. Talk to her.
2006-09-05 08:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by dlmvm0612 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, you have nothing to lose here. Just ask her if she wants to go on a date with you. I'm sick and tired of guys acting like the lady's these days. Guys need to become the men there supposed to be, and get past the chicken stage.
I know so many men that wait for woman to ask them out, but Im sorry..guys we actually wait for you to ask us out, we still want a prince, a knight in shining armor, get your balls back and ask her out!
What's the worst that can happen? She'll say no, at least then you will know and not waste your time wondering if she would go out with you or not. If she says no, move on, there are lots of girls in the sea just waiting for a guy like you to come along and bless her with your presence. Like Nike says.. Just do it...
2006-09-05 08:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by unique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you really like her?
Enough to act boldly and just ask her to "just if she wants to hang out." If you say a lot the first time, you my come out as a spastic from you being nervous and stuff. Then, just hang on campus, like at the caffe, (not library), buy her a drink and go for a walk. Later as her for her number and set a date.
2006-09-05 08:36:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know that to say but here are a few good pick up lines for you.
Do you have any library fines?
Cause you look fine all the time
Do you like Lucky Charms?
Cause your Magicallly Delicious
Are your parents retarded?
Because your special
Do you believe love at first sight?
Or should i walk by again
2006-09-05 08:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by ukfansc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋