I've always thought that kissing is more sensual and meaningful than having sex. I LOVED making out, much better than I did having sex. I've been dating this guy for a little over 9 months now, and I love him so much. At the beginning of the relationship I absolutely couldn't stand being away from him. I loved making out with him, and having sex. But now for some reason I don't feel sexually attracted to him like I used to. I don't show him affection like I used to and it makes him sad, I can tell. When we aren't together I wonder what he's doing and who he's with.. but when we are together, it's like I could care less. I don't know what to do. I know he loves me soo much, and I want to be able to show him the same affection, but for some reason I just can't do it. My emotions are so mixed up that I don't know weather I want to be with him, but then again I don't want to be without him.
2006-09-05 08:27:28 · 11 answers · asked by C-Baby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seems to me like this relationship was based SOLELY on the physical..and now ur realizing that u need MORE.... and possibly he doesn't challenge you mentally and emotionally enough for u to get "excited" about him physically. they really are connected.. u have to respect, love, cherish, EVERYTHING that person in order to really have a satisfying physical relationship. if not, it's just sex..and gets old fast. if i were u, i'd really figure out what you expect from yourself as a girlfriend, from what u want in a boyfriend, and from the relationship. do u see urself marrying him, or do u want someone who makes u excited in all things in life? =T....."someone who loves u" is not enough of a requirement in the boyfriend department. u are very lucky to have it, but it doesn't end there. u have to be just as loving and committed, in order for the relationship to GROW. if not, u will become stagnant, and take him for granted..and that's not fair to HIM, as well as you.
good luck, and figure out what you want. sometimes loving someone is letting them find someone who will be GOOD and Right for them....even tho it is sad to break up, it is for the best. but if u love him, give him a chance to change. =T that's all u can do...if u can't give him any more physical attention, there's a huge disconnect.
2006-09-05 08:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been married to the same man for 20 years now! BELIEVE me when I say- there r times I dont even want to be around my hubby either! Its not cuz I dont llove him- its just because we have shared everything there is too share so its all kinda become routine to us. Try not seeing each other as much and then when u r together it will be like dynamite! If its still not there for you- let him know how u feel. Its unfair to him as well as to yourself to be in a relationship that has no more spark! Good luck!
2006-09-05 08:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the spark goes away a little, sometimes it goes away a lot. Do you love him? Do you like to be around him? Being sweet and affectionate is ok. You don't need to be all over each other to love each other.
2006-09-05 08:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by hott for it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 23:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by garling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have past the infatutuation phase of your relationship. You are now in whatever phase that comes after. This phase really stinks, but if you have feelings for him, stick with it. The next phase is the marriage-phase.
2006-09-05 08:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by barter256 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called being a girl, your all the same its a phase
2006-09-05 08:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by Funny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might work better if you talked to him about this instead of us.
2006-09-05 08:35:09 · answer #7 · answered by Spud55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to try some other guy also & then go back to him.
2006-09-05 08:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by akela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him ur doubt he will give u the correct ans
2006-09-05 08:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by might 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad PMS day?
2006-09-05 08:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋