OK, HE LIKES THIS GIRL AND FINALLY GOT HER TO MEET UP WITH HIM THIS PAST WEEKEND AND HE EFFED UP BAD. HE GOT TOO TIPSY AND LEFT AND WENT HOME LEAVING HER THERE BY HERSELF. SHE HAD DROVE AND MET HIM THERE, ITS A CLUB. WELL HE HAS TRIED TO CALL AND APOLOGIZE AND SHE WON'T ANSWER, BUT HE WANTS TO SAY SORRY, AND THEN LET IT GO FROM THERE. I SAY FLOWERS, WHAT DO YOU THINK?? AND WHAT KIND OF FLOWERS IF SO???
2006-09-05 08:12:39 · 27 answers · asked by Clementine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget the flowers, plan a 2nd date, tell her how sorry you are and you've never been like that. honesty is better than flowers any day. if that fails, white roses
2006-09-05 08:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by baseball_saenz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sending flowers and phone calls for apologies is the cowards way out. If he cares about her and getting to know her better he should get off his butt and go apologize in person. But also on the other side to avoid his calls is petty and she may not be worth the effort. Surely not a good start for either side.
2006-09-05 15:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should deliver the flowers to her in person if anything. If I had a guy do that, I don't think that I would want to hear from him again, if the flowers don't work, tell him to leave her alone, he'll only further piss her off! I would send roses probably, unless he knows her favorite flower. He could write her a poem to stick in the bouquet that explains that he fu(ked up and apologizes, tell him good luck from me though!
2006-09-05 15:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if a guy got too drunk and left me at a club when we're supposed to be on a date I wouldn't be accepting any calls from him either....but since your friend needs help I would say besides trying to call her 20 times a day just go to her house or where she works and bring a dozen white roses to ask for her forgiveness..since white is a color for peace..hopefully they can find some peace with each other....and just at tip, maybe you should tell him not to drink so much next time...or else this girl he likes is definitely not going to ever answer his phone calls....she'll probably get her number changed...
2006-09-05 15:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by lilsweetone619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, if some girl did that to me then I wouldn't pick up the phone either. This kind of screwing up can only be done if the person you pissed of has memories of you not acting like an idiot. It looks like he swung and missed on his first time at bat. If someone had done this to me not even a brand new car would get me to try again.
2006-09-05 15:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by SL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to give him a sencond chance, ...
JUST FLOWERS .., mmm Not enough !! He really messed up, right? Leaving like a poutting child like that.
Make him pay for it !
Dinner (not Mc, Wendys, etc.), a dozen of Tulips (the new thing) with huge long red stem roses surrounding them and two white long ones in the midlle (sig. the apology to you from his heart).
He won't forget this one, I guarantee you !!
2006-09-05 15:23:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should send flowers & candy! The flower should be 2 dozen yellow roses.
2006-09-05 15:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by chandra y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can not control his drinking then he should not drag some innocent into his immature or sick problems. Flowers are manipulating . He should just apologize and try again if it really was an mistaken one time thing. If she blows him off..lesson learned
2006-09-05 15:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by sweet pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of flowers and ballons and a teddy bear. Find out where she is walking one day and then have him come up behind her so everyone can see then she'll know he's really sorry.
2006-09-05 15:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing she doesn't want to hear from him OR get flowers from him either. She's right too , he IS a jerk for doing that. I think he should learn that its VERY necessary to be at least polite in that dating/mating thing. If a woman did that to me, I wouldn't talk to her.
2006-09-05 15:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋