i really like this guy that i have not meet face to face just talked on the phone and on the net should i try and meet him or not
2006-09-05 08:11:08 · 23 answers · asked by from_the_heart_1210 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's alright to want to meet him, but just make sure you do it safely.
Meet in a public place, let a friend or family member know what your plans are and where you will be, and have a cell phone with if possible. Also, be sure to let your friend or family member know the name of the person you will be meeting, and the phone number you have used to call him.
It's great to meet new people, but protect yourself first.
2006-09-05 08:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by coinman1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen several pictures of him? One picture will not do.
It's okay to meet with him. Make it in the daytime and in a public place. Also drive your own car, and have a cell phone.
It would be great if friends can come along. Or a friend watch from a distance.
Think of the worst istuation and make the neccesary adjustments. Protect yourself. You are too important.
good luck
IAMWOODY
2006-09-05 15:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by redflying36 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? make sure he sends you a pic..and if you really want to, then meet him..DURING THE DAY..at a Starbucks, not close to your house. Have a friend call you an hour after you meet, and give you an "out". If you're having a nice time, then don't snwer. If you need to bail, you can make something up (answr the call)...Thats what I would do.
2006-09-05 15:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by nowolfgang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet in a very public place the first time, in case there are issues.
2006-09-05 15:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he lives nearby maybe. Meet in a public place to be safe. Also, keep in mind that people online are not always who they appear to be.
2006-09-05 15:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet him but take a friend or someone with you....or you could just meet in a public place like a coffee shop
2006-09-05 15:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by xashcroftx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't it sounds too dangerous. but if u really want to meet him, ask to meet in a certain place, tell him who to look for then hide behind something and check him out see if he looks dangerous, if not be careful if u decide he looks harmless.
sorry if this sounds dorky.
2006-09-05 15:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by Deni T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should, for a few reasons:
1. He could be very ugly.
2. He could be a serial rapist.
3. He could be 80 years old.
4. He could be some sweaty bastard who wants to give you a hug.
2006-09-05 15:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by personal_trainer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go meet him....but make sure to do it in a public place during the day.
2006-09-05 15:25:45 · answer #9 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask to see a picture of him, Or just go ahead and meet him ..Or web cam woohoo.
2006-09-05 15:15:49 · answer #10 · answered by Deez N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋