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I want to marry ONLY rich/wealthy...Now I know what most of you all are going to say...you should make your own money...blah blah... But am I wrong for wanting to marry a football or basketball player! Or any man that makes a very well income? It’s not like I am going to be selfish with his money! I will buy my mom a new house and car, my daddy a new truck and so on. I will also give to charities and stuff like that! Also after I quite my job and become a stay at home wife..I will clean the house and cook and do all the "wife" stuff so we won’t have to spend money on housekeepers! I just want to leave a pampered life...why is that a crime?

If anybody who know where all the men with real money are at in DC please let me know where to find them.

Thanks

2006-09-05 08:09:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

24 answers

Sue Sue you must be young because there is alot more to a man than his money cause if thats all you see. I feel for you, there are good men out there that will make you feel like a queen. Having money is a poor reason to marry someone. You will be more likely to be unhappy in the later years.

2006-09-05 08:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by yankeecowboy10 2 · 0 0

All of the things you described can be done with any normal guy on the block. It is commendable you wish to provide for your family but even poor people provide for their families. As far as becoming a stay at home wife so you don't need a housekeeper any guy who has a lot of money is also smart enough to know that a maid is cheaper than a wife. A maid only gets paid if she works and if she quits you don't pay alimony. Point being, my mom and my grandmother think exactly like you do and they collectively have 2 bankruptcies and 7 divorces (all of them rich and successful ex's). They are now both old and have nothing to show for it. Lastly, if you are wanting to marry a basketball or football player you may need to lower your expectations. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to successful men but you need to find love and success in the same guy. If you want to meet successful/rich men and really understand the nature of the beast and realize what you are asking for read "The Millionaire Next Door." Trust me, there is one thing rich/successful men always do when confronted with women and marriage. It's called an ironclad pre-nup.

2006-09-05 08:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by SL 3 · 0 0

Ok so normally I don't give serious answers to your questions but this time I will. I think that your normal. You just want what most people in America want. Hell you want what most people in the world want and that's someone who can help them live there dream. I really hate working. Everyday I try to figure out ways to become rich so I won't have to. I hope that you find a rich man to marry. When you do find out if they have any brothers or sisters lol you know I can go on any end of the deal. Good luck to you mate! Good day

2006-09-05 08:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 · 1 0

That's not a crime. But on the other hand a family can live comfortably on a single income of $40K per year if you live in the right place and control your lifestyle.

If you want to buy things for you family then yeah you probably would have to marry rich. Good luck to you.

There's probably plenty of politicians in DC who make lots of money.

2006-09-05 08:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by Drowningbluestars 4 · 0 0

I wouldn't say so much "gold-digger" as I would "whore". You're only criteria for marriage is lots of money. After you marry, what if someone with MORE money comes along?

What would you think of a guy who wanted to do a body fat index of a girl before he married them, because he only likes petite women? Even if you were very slim, you probably wouldn't bother with him (for obvious reasons). Which is why most guys really wont bother with you (for marriage anyways).

Unless you are really hot, most wealthy men probably wouldn't even pay just for sex. Everyone wants to live a pampered life, but no one is entitled.

2006-09-06 14:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by cognitively_dislocated 5 · 0 0

Reading the question, I'm wondering if 'rich' guy is your only criteria? Or if you're looking for a guy 'who is also rich.' That is to say, if you'd take a guy who was 50+ fat ugly mean and worth 500 million, then yup that makes you a gold digger.

But if you're looking for a nice guy, who you are attracted to and who likes you too, but who is also rich ... then that just makes you practical. Like the old saying, 'Just as easy to fall for a rich guy as a poor guy.' Men look for women who are pretty. Why shouldn't women look for guys with a few bucks in the bank?

2006-09-05 09:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by TechnoRat60 5 · 0 0

I think that as long as you truly want to do good with the money, such as helping your parents and charities and doing work around the house for yourself, then that's fine. If you were out to marry a rich guy only to help yourself, then I wouldn't agree. Good luck!

2006-09-05 08:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0 0

Its alright for women to look for guys with money, a football player is too much, but a guy who earns around $80,000+(annual) is reasonable. If u want to love the guy then its alright, but u shouldnt be 'using' him for money only.....Women want money and financial security, a man who can provide and take care.

We admit we want a Beautiful face, a nice rack and sweet buns.

2006-09-05 08:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It still sounds like your want to use Him. Do You want to marry a guy you love or do you want to marry His money.

I'm not rich, but If I was, I'd leave you at the corner.

2006-09-05 08:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by elliott 4 · 0 0

Nothing wrong with it at all. If your going to put up with a mans bullsh*t he might as well have money. Aren't men always looking for something particular in women ?? Go for what you want and what makes you happy.

2006-09-05 08:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1 0

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