My friend is 27 n a girl.she had a string of boyfriends but is currently single.we're pretty good buds but even so stuff she has been doing lately has sort of made me wonder what she is doing. 1)she calls me all the time to hang out - even if its just to sit and watch tv. 2) she called me at work 1 day n asked me out for lunch -she paid 3) she had a bad nightmare one night n called me cause she needed to calm down. 4) i said i want to move to another city eventually n she said she'd go with me.
5) i picked her n her friends up from a pub this past weekend n when she got into the car she gave me this weird smile n then played with my hair for a minute.6) a guy friend stayed over at her place n i teased her about what might happen n she got sad i said that and told me "nothing was going to happen between the guy n her" and she wanted me to believe her cause she values my opinion of her SO much.7) she teases me all the time n brings up stuff ive said to back up her teasing.
huh?
2006-09-05 08:03:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldnt automatically jump to the conclusion that she wants you cause women tend to lead men on alot lol .... BUT maybe she does BUT if she did dont you think she'd tell you because she has such a huge history with men and wouldnt hesitate or be nervous. The only way youre going to find out whatall of this means is by talking to her and/or showing her the question you posted about it. Tell her to give you the honest to God truth about what is going on whether it be positive or negative. Ask yourself, what do YOU want the outcome to be? If you like her, dont be nervous asking her about her feelings and dont get too happy incase she dont feel the same way. If you dont like her and she likes you, let her down easy or give it a go and ''try'' to get to know her on an intimate level. Be sure not to damage your friendship with her! Well hope I helped.
Best of luck :)
2006-09-05 08:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well seems to me you msut be a hunk or something, this is our way of telling you HELLO, we have the hots for you.... Seem to me by what you have typed that she has a crush on you, if you like her ask her out, she is teasing, but wanting you to make the first move, but if you dont like her than leave it alone, but tell her, casue you dont want to toy with a females emotions
2006-09-05 08:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she might be looking to you for someone to lean on. She might be into you. If she is and you like her I'd say be careful you don't want a relationship to ruin a friendship and if you find out she likes you and you aren't into her that way, let her down easy.
2006-09-05 08:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by tem_in_a_box 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought she was 26 in your last question.
anyhow, you need to talk to her about all this.
or put a move on her and she how she responds or
just tell her you have been thinking about putting a move on her.
or next time she plays with your hair say "that makes me want to kiss you" or whatever to feel out the situation.
2006-09-05 08:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k well i'm in the same predicament-- and i'm the girl..... so i will tell you as honostly as i feel about my guy friend.... she's in love with you, she's just scared that A- you aren't feeling the same way or B- that your friendship could be ruined if she brings it up like that... if you feel the same way tell her-- good luck i hope yours works out perfectly
2006-09-05 08:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really like her, tell her and she what she says. If she does not feel the same way then you can move on.
2006-09-05 09:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by PI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in a tough situation...
you've got two options...
1. shes consideres you as a best friend.
she calls you to hang out. and she asks you to eat lunch..
its proper etiquite for someone who asks you out to lunch to pay.
or
2. shes got a crush on you.
but i think she just your best friend.
2006-09-05 08:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by sellatieeat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She either likes you or she just considers you as a really, really, REALLY close friend. Talk to her about it. You will never know unless you ask.
2006-09-05 08:08:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are just best friends...But if you are feeling like its more just ask her...But be prepared for the answer!
2006-09-05 08:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by Blessed1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a move
i will whip it out n see what she will do with it
2006-09-05 08:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋