2006-09-05 07:51:45 · 36 answers · asked by beautifuldisasterforurenjoyment 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't believe that for one minute. to love someone it takes 100% devotion to one person! if you could then it would not be love. in fact you would love neither of them! 100% divided by two is 50% which is infatuation at best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-05 07:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by toffees1230 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it depends on how he handles it whether it is going to be an ongoing issue. Is the current girlfriend always going to feel like she's second best? Is he still in contact with the ex, making the current girlfriend feel threatened? Are they playing the "well now we're just friends" game?
Most people who are divorced or had very significant prior relationships have some sort of love for their ex. But the person needs to come to terms with the fact that it's over, and grieve the loss of that person and relationship - preferably *before* they move on to a new relationship.
2006-09-05 07:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by Marion K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. why wouldn't it be. there is several forms of love. i mean, thers this qoute that i think will help you.....
"You might not be his first, his last, or his only. He's cared about someone else before and possibly will again- but if he cares for you now; then what else matters? He's not perfect and you aren't either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He is probably not going to quote poetry. He might not be thinking about you every second of the day. But he will give you a part of him that he knows you can break, so don't hurt him, don't change him and don't expect more than he can give. Don't over analyze, smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him whenever he's not there."
2006-09-05 07:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by nessa d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love and BEING IN love are two different things. I love my ex.... how could I not.. I loved him when we dated... We have a slew of memories together.... a history together..... but ask me if I'm still IN LOVE with him and the answers a hell no. We didn't work out... he wasn't the best boyfriend.... we don't hate each other... there's no ill will between us and I want him to be happy and successful in life. I wouldn't, couldn't... never will be with him again. I have no desire to see him, spend any length of time with him, but yes, I still love him..... So, what I'm getting at is that it's possible to still love an ex...
2006-09-05 07:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by rachael 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. It could be the fact that there is a lot of history there. It could be that she dumped him and he's not over it fully. It could be that he loves her as a friend and you romantically.
Or it could be that the old relationship was better than the current, and he keeps the good memories about the ex alive.
Sorry if that sux
2006-09-05 07:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by Good luck chief 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible. He should take a break from any relationship until he is somewhat over the ex. Girls don't like having half of your love.
2006-09-05 07:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by rchbrk6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
this is my situation
my x and i broke up and i never stop loving her
but i met a great girl after and i love her
but i love both of them
i bump into my x and we talk about getting back together
but i wasnt going to jump on the situation cuz i wasnt going to risk losing what i have right now for something that is not sure
so i chose to stay with current gf but i still think about the other one from time to time
2006-09-05 07:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Love has many aspects and dimensions. Depending to whom it is given, love shapes itself. For example, love for your granny is different than love for your man, yet it is love. Love's expandable and each one of us has space for many loved ones in our hearts. At the same time, don't be a fool either, girl. If loving her means he is still going out with her or having sex with her, then sit him down for a good talk. Make sure he understands where you stand and what you will and will not accept. No eating from two plates!
2006-09-05 08:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
b'coz
i used to have a gf in my school days and in the college i had other
but it was so difficult for me to handle both of them simultaneously
coz most of the time ur 2nd will be better than 1st
so they love the 2nd mostly . and cant cope up with both
2006-09-05 08:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by indian_don 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... possibilities are we may even love our ex more than the current gf... its a fact..
2006-09-05 08:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by efsph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of direction he has no longer allow pass. it really is strictly why its not in any respect a good idea to have a rebound hookup.... even with the reality that in case you dont admit its a rebound hookup! breakups take time to get over.... he probable isn't waiting to totally allow pass of you and on account that -- who more effective to cry to than the ex even as someone breaks up with you? there continues to be a experience of comfortableness there, that the ex nevertheless speaks to you.
2016-12-06 11:16:40 · answer #11 · answered by vierra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋