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What would u do if u were dating or married to a guy, but than u find out tht he is gay, and has another man on the side. This would piss me off, how bout u?

PS. This has not happened to me.

2006-09-05 07:19:18 · 38 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

38 answers

break up or file for divorce, and if it was a divorce i'd take everything i could b/c he deceived me. how can you start a life with someone when you prefer someone else, whether it's a man or a woman?

2006-09-05 07:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by Meggz21 4 · 0 0

this happened to my best friend, she ultimately made a huge life change and joined the army...... I think the point is ultimately not that they are gay. BUT, they still not only cheated, they lied, they led the girl on, kept secrets and ultimately it's a huge betrayal.... you find out that you're completely wrong about a man you've been so crazy in love with..... It's the ultimate deceit and it hits so close to home......... I know I'd be pissed... but then... you never know..... after it all blew over, I'd have one hell of a shopping partner :-)

2006-09-05 07:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by rachael 3 · 0 0

Yes I would be pissed for sure. I would leave him without a second thought. Too much out there that will kill ya! Plus the trust factor would have gone out the window.

2006-09-05 07:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't know about being pissed off but I would definitely feel a bit sick to my stomach knowing that he may have been thinking of a man while we were in bed that's gross and wrong on so many levels. lol.

2006-09-05 07:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by ny_butterfly_princess 1 · 0 0

There's a reason why one would be dating this person and it's obviously not for the sex. I think I'd be pretty ticked off at first but the underlying reason why I'm with this person is because I love them. So I wouldn't rule them out from my life entirely - you can't kill love because of sexual appetite - unless it was superficial - then off with his head (penis head, that is).
Also, I'd get super paranoid about STDs and sue his *** for endangering me.

2006-09-05 07:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by Alex B 3 · 0 0

I'd go get checked for STD's. The homosexual population is at higher risk for HIV and many others...I'd be upset to know I was cheated on, but it wouldn't be any different if it were with a woman. I'm not judgemental toward peoples' sexual preference, it's not my place.

2006-09-05 07:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0 0

it actually happened to my wife..... she was devastated for a while and didn't trust guys for a while... but she got over it eventually....
I kept telling her that " x more years and I'll be gay"
x = (the number of years we have been dating at the time) - (the years that she dated a gay man and didn't know it)...... even though everyone else told her..... blind love.... ain't it grand...

2006-09-05 07:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by pro_steering_wheel_holder 4 · 0 0

Yes I think it would piss any girl off. It would deffinately still be called cheating!! Why did you ask this question....did it happen to a freind??

2006-09-05 07:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by Green Tea Happy 3 · 0 0

Of course I'd be ticked. Not because he came out of the closet but because he witheld it instead of being up front and honest about it from the start.

2006-09-05 07:22:37 · answer #9 · answered by shyvicki 6 · 0 0

for some people maybe. But if i were that chick I would get them to do a group thing! Obviously he is bisexual, and his partner should have no problem because I think it would be harder to do it to the same sex versus the opposite sex.

2006-09-05 07:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

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