i think i m suffiring from this. so plz help me out!
2006-09-05 07:15:30 · 17 answers · asked by ABHI$ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
both.
2006-09-05 07:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by revolou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u R GOING THRU A an attraction- ***-infatuation kind of phase.It's only natural.Iam sure u r on the threshold of either adolescence or adulthood.This is tha stage when the sexual reproductive organs increase the production of hormones in the body.It is also the stage when the nerves inside the brain start becoming specialized.
WE ALL KNOW THAT WE CAN'T ALWAYS GET WHAT WE WANT.If love brings sadness or happiness,one should never lose one's confidence and be optimistic.These are times when one becomes depressed or over-excited.Both r harmful to the mind and body.So,I advise u that if love does't become an obsession for something or someone,u just keep it suppressed and restricted within u and try to avid these thoughts by engaging in other constructive activities.If love does become an obsession,then my friend,consult a phsychiatrist who will give u one or two medicines to control procrastination(regular constant thinking.)Don't hestitate!!!!If still nothing happens then refrain urself from whatever u r obsessing about and change ur mind-set.It will hurt u but take it positively.Goodluck!!!
2006-09-05 07:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Abhi...i have no idea wots ur age...but one thing...dont take a decision when ur confused or lonely...it gives u tears later in life...
Be confident on ur decison on all angles...ask a question to urself if ur happy about every now and then...that will inturn keep u happy and the relationship healthy.
take care
bye
rp
2006-09-05 07:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by r p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the ultimate truth. It lives in you. It's a choice. Yes, it's possible to feel a range of emotions. Courage comes when you choose to accept whatever lesson it brings to enlighten you and to help you to become wiser.
2006-09-05 07:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by Carolanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love gives bothbut love will never lie or cheat on you so if your hurt cause of cheating or lies than you better look into leaving or have a bad life and stay hurt.Good luckty.
2006-09-05 07:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by pirateron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both, but happiness should always outweigh the sadness... crying too much means you're hurting too much, and although love does hurt at times, there is a limit.
2006-09-05 07:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by fickle™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it gives both..dammit! haha... what u need to do, is make sure FIRST, that u are doing all u can to love, cherish, support, trust, commit, and BE TRUSTWORTHY. now, after all that, ask yourself.. do u feel that your partner is doing the same for you? if not, u gotta talk to him. communicate. Figure out the Nonsense.
i recently had to do this with my "wonderful" boyfriend.... turns out, this whole time i've been truly happy and loving him and loving life...that he's been taking me for granted! not doing anything out of the way to do things for me, take care of me... while i was busting my *** taking care of Myself, and Him. gosh was i mad! and i found this out because he was starting to be kinda rude, or obnoxious, or making stupid comments, along with not getting me any little gifts, or saying anything nice to make me feel appreciated. when i confronted him, he admitted that he didn't even THINK of doing anything nice for me...! what a jerk huh? =T and this is my "wonderful" boyfriend..
but yeah, i had had to communicate w/ him what I NEED, and what I WANT from a boyfriend.... and he needs to accept that, and try to do that for me, in order for this relationship to Proceed, move on, grow. i make sure that i do my best to make him feel appreciated, loved, wanted, etc etc..and so he should do the same for me. if i wasn't a loving girlfriend, i could hardly expect him to treat me well. so, the key thing, is to use that LOVE u have, and make it grow. if one person is not on the same page, doesn't understand, or doesn't want to understand, u are in a one sided relationship...which is where the crying comes in. figure out where ur partner is, and if he's willing to do all he can to try to stop your crying...and even when he makes a mistake, u will be able to forgive him, because u know he is doing his best..same as for u..he will be able to forgive u because he knows u are doing ur best. good luck~
2006-09-05 07:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesnt give tears which pains us; but it gives us tears, which comes out of happiness.
2006-09-05 07:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by Wilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both. we were put on this earth to love. never stop loving. it is our purpose. Love is when you feel hard to be without someone and when you would risk your life for them and not think twice about it.
2006-09-05 07:18:53 · answer #9 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love is not the silliest thing that people do, but gravity
cannot be held responsible for it.
-- Albert Einstein
http://youtube.com/watch?v=nsCXZczTQXo
2006-09-05 07:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by Merranvo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It give happiness till life end.It cannot explain exactly how it is but it gives something change in our life.
2006-09-05 18:24:39 · answer #11 · answered by gaya n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋