I met someone through another friend over the phone and ever since we met (through the phone)we have spent over a month talking and at first...I thought okay, he's cool and he is a good listener and I like to listen to him. Well, anyhow we both took a liking to eachother and enjoy eachothers conversations. I want to meet him so bad and he wants to meet me....what should I do? I recently got out of a bad relationship with someone who never hit me but I suffered a lot of mental abuse. Could it be...that I am falling for this guy? or am I just feeling him because of what I just got out of? This new guy is a single father of 4 children that are the same ages as mine. We have so much in common and he always considers my answers to his questions Honestly, he makes me feel so loved. One day he did not call until the evening and I thought that he did not want nothing to do with me, so I left him a message and he told me that I needed to stop that because he likes me a lot. Could it be?
2006-09-05 07:13:13 · 12 answers · asked by Ronika P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is telling you that he likes you and he calls you and talks to you about his life there actually might be the chance that hr does like you. Now my advice to you is not to rush into anything think things thru and make sure that you are not on the re-bound. Make sure that the feelings you have for this guy are authentic. But if you like that much speaking to him and he brings you happiness when you're sad then that is a good start talk to him and see where go from there. oh And meet him in person.
2006-09-05 07:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by andia2amat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've connected emotionally.
Dating should be your next step.
Merging both families will be a ton of work. You have his full attention right now...will you have it after marriage?
I believe the most important step in any 2nd relationship is to get the expectations out on the table...early & often.
When we are first married, it's impossible to understand what we expect from our spouse. By the 2nd mariage, we have no excuses.
It's great to be 'in-love', and nothing will change that. But this time around, try to be smart about the relationship.
2006-09-05 14:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by hellsbells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be. Be careful. Meet for at first in areas with others around. After a month, perhaps you'll have an easier decision.
2006-09-05 14:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by robert r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, what is keeping you two from meeting? You can't really answer your question until after you see how you feel once you have met.
2006-09-05 14:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by flwrgrl692001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit thinking with your heart and use your head. And for Gawd's sake wait for him to call you. You haven't really met yet.
2006-09-05 14:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by namsaev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be love but if the guy's KIDS are the same age as you....ewww...
holla back
2006-09-05 14:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some thing confusing. nothing to worry. manage like a matured person.
2006-09-05 14:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO GO VERY SLOWLY. YOU BE FALLING FOR THE SAME KIND OF MAN.SOMETIMES THEY PRETEND TO BE SOMEONE THEY ARE NOT TO GET YOU. TAKE YOUR TIME, FIND OUT WHO YOU ARE & WHAT YOU REALLY WANT BFORE YOU DECIDE
2006-09-05 14:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, e is your man.
2006-09-05 14:17:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet him. it could be. you wont know until you actually meet him though.
2006-09-05 14:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by thankgodformaryjane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋