is it successful to have a platonic relationship with a good looking girl , if so why do girls and guys lose their virginity at adolescence .
2006-09-05 07:09:28 · 6 answers · asked by philanthropic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BECAUSE THEY ARE CHILDISH AND IMMATURE AND DO VALUE THEIR BODIES LIKE THEY SHOULD.
P.S. Love and Sex are NOT THE SAME THING!
2006-09-05 07:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol... love usually ends in sex. however....SEX does not always end up in LOVE!!! that is a very important lesson......
sex is a curiosity....being physical, experiencing certain feelings and pleasure in general is exciting, exhilerating, fun...but later, the love part kicks in, people get hurt, fall in and out of love, treat eachother badly....... but if u focus on the love part from the beginning, and make sure u love that person, and that person loves u..but it doesn't stop there.. u have to make sure it is a Positive, Healthy, Growing relationship...... not just a passing thing, or bad opportunities, bad timing..... it's gotta be Mental, Emotional, Spiritual connection and being on the "same page" in expectations from yourselves, ur partner, and the relationship: THEN, (and in theory, when u are married)...consummating the marriage thru the Physical is uniting ALL the factors u are commiting to in the relaitonship with this one person.
:) Love can be a wonderful, awesome, exciting, Positive, and Healthy thing..but it can also morph, change, or become something negative, which is scary and not good for you. that is why it is more important to focus on cultivating the LOVE, and the sex will just come naturally and in a positive way. if u focus on the SEX, u are in for trouble =T !
2006-09-05 14:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is ok to have platonic friendships. But love does usually end in sex if there is physical attraction. Its hard to especially at adolescence with peer pressure and hormones but I've known a few people who are older and have stayed abstinent.
I think if you are truly in love, and both want to, than yes it will end up in a sexual act.
2006-09-05 14:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that guys and girls lose their virginity at such a young age because of their peers around them either bragging on something that hasnt happened or something they want to happen therefore putting the pressure on their friends around them to want to fall into the in crowd the crowd that everyone looking at, as how a kid should be. so making them want they have. they problem with the youth today is noone is individualistic, noone has their own mind.
2006-09-05 14:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by The LuvDoctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love always end in hatred
2006-09-05 14:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by r_govardhanam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but it sure does help.
2006-09-05 14:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋