i've fallen in love with my best guy friend..... we've been inseperable for about 4 months now.... and up until 2-3 weeks ago he had a girlfriend.... but he was never with her because he was with me. & now he's moving out of town to work-- but he always makes sure i'm going to come visit and he's gonna come visit me for my birthday.... so i'm wondering should i have these strong feelings for him when i don't know where he stands... and when he tells me he hates it that one of my friends is crushing on him... advice advice advice please.. any input at all will be appreciated!!
2006-09-05 06:50:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's seriously one of those head over heels stories..... i think i love him because he's my best friend-- but i know i love him!!
2006-09-05 06:51:39 · update #1
One way to tell might be to introduce him to some guy you are interested in and if he later tells you he doesn't like him, then it is probably because he has a thing for you. Although I have had lots of guy friends, I came to realize that almost all of them would have loved to become more than friends. It was just me stopping that from happening.
2006-09-05 15:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in a situation like yours. i had this best gf and she liked me and all and i was acting the same way your guy friend is acting. i liked this other girl and i hated it when people said i was going out w/ my best gf. now i am not with either of them but im working on getting in touch w/ the girl i like. i think you should take it slow and see what happens with him and his gf.
2006-09-05 14:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by duke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to explain your feelings with ur boyfriend. If he loves you than he accept otherwise u can not interfere his personal life.
2006-09-05 14:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by sheth_rb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think unless your moving with him , you can kiss him goodbye !
2006-09-05 14:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋