Is it so wrong to be in a mixed relationship. Im white and hes black. Is It Wrong?
2006-09-05 06:49:31 · 44 answers · asked by Carly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it's not wrong. God created everything on this earth, and we are all His children. so why would it be wrong? there is only one race and that is the human race. sure there are a lot of ignorant people in the world who frown upon it but that doesn't mean that they are right. you guys might come across some people who might say things or who might give you guys looks when you go out in public but that doesn't matter. as long as you two are happy with each other it shouldn't matter what anyone has to say. i hope this helps
2006-09-05 06:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't wrong. And don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise.
My concern is that you seem to feel guilty about this relationship. If that is the case then perhaps you are not well-suited for an interracial realationship. If not, then I suggest you consider not going any further.
It is difficult enough to be with someone of another race but you seem to have misgivings about what other people may think. That can lead to resentment, stress, and then eventually a bad breakup.
If you love this person then you must be strong in your commitment to be together no matter what.
2006-09-05 06:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong. But it won't stop people from talking and saying awful things sometimes. If you guys have a totally understanding relationship and are comfortable with the differences in race, there should be no problem other than the usual. Don't let what people say get to you. YOU and only you decide whats right and whats wrong.
2006-09-05 06:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think it is wrong? I would have to say no...I was in a mixed relationship for 13 years and have two children by that marriage...they grew up just fine.
2006-09-05 06:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by mac5doc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong in a 'mixed' relationship.
Whether you're black, white or brown skinned it doesn't matter.
As long as you and your partner accepts each other differences regardless of your race, nationality or religion then there wouldn't be a problem.
Always remember its all about YOU and HIM not YOU GUYS and THEM. :)
2006-09-05 07:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by ToX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly don't think so. My mother is white and my father is hispanic. My boyfriend is black and we have a baby on the way. You need to do what's best for you. Don't worry about the people out there who think that it's wrong. Love is love regardless of color.
2006-09-05 06:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by every1lovesamixedgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong two black people can have a child and it can be white or two white making a black child, darker skin has more natural sunblock than lighter skin thats the only difference as we are all the same.
2006-09-05 07:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's not :S I don't understand why u r asking this! What do u mean by "wrong"? As long as u r both comfortable with each other (and this has nothing to do with the colour of your skins), everything's perfectly fine...
2006-09-05 06:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by noone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is mixed? You cannot mix the human race. As long as you make each other happy go for it.
2006-09-05 06:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about race, as long as you love each other, you can over come anything. I am a white lady and my husband of over a year is Filippino, We are so happily married, I don't think I could love another human being as much as I love him.
2006-09-05 06:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by Lilat180 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋