but he kissed her when we first started dating. and lies to me bout talking to her. it has been going on like this for the last year and half and he was being so good til bout a month ago then he started calling her again cuz she called him....what do i do he doesnt like talking bout his feelings but it is driving me crazy!?!?!?!
2006-09-05 06:48:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, but to me it really doesn't sound like he's over her. Move on to someone that will appreciate you.
2006-09-05 06:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by hoddin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let him know that you are really concerned that he might be placing himself in a bad situation. Perhaps its not that you don't trust him, but that you don't think the other girl respects your relationship. I think if you are honest with him about how you feel, he can't fault you for that. If he continues to lie and go behind your back, he is the one who doesn't respect you. I know you have been with him for a year and a half, but you just need to ask yourself if this is the type of person you want to invest your time in if he can't even be honest with you. Good luck!
2006-09-05 06:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by Nik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There should be a certain boundary line when it come to ex's. Me and my husband rules are once it's over it's over. So that nothing does'nt come up or start. That the past is your past. You should draw a line how would he like it if you were talking to your ex. Honesty it sound to me as something is going on. Because why should you have to lie if there is nothing going on between you and that person?
2006-09-05 06:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by volcano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but it sounds like my X boyfriend. and trust me honey he is cheating on you with her. Why else would he have a reason to talk to her. I would leave now before you get hurt more than you are.
2006-09-05 06:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by JUSTME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT MUCH TO DO ABOUT IT EXCEPT ACCEPT IT AND GO ON, SEE WHERE IT LEADS. JEALOUSY CAN CERTAINLY RUIN A RELATIONSHIP IN A HURRY.IF YOU IGNORE IT THEN HE WONT HAVE TO LIE TO YOU ABOUT IT. YOU CANT STOP HIM FROM BEING WITH HER IF THAT IS REALLY WHAT HE WANTS.
2006-09-05 06:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lying and wants the best of both worlds... dump him... the quicker the better... and don't bother giving him an excuse...
2006-09-05 06:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He is lying to you so you can never trust him and therefore not have a good relationship.
2006-09-05 06:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you from experience, unless they have a child together, they are not "just friends"
thats always been true for me. tell him to hit the road!
2006-09-05 06:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get past the jealousy or give him up.
2006-09-05 06:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him now and dont wait at all .
2006-09-05 06:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by pirateron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋