I am a 19 year old Realtor, still live with my parents, drive a kinda crappy car. Business is looking good but hasn't taken off yet. The target of my affection is 23, college grad., and has a great job. (I don't know exactly what she does, I don't even know her name!). Do you think she will see past my circumstances to realize that I can be her dream man or will she refuse to consider for other reasons ie: age, life stage etc.?
2006-09-05 06:44:53 · 16 answers · asked by FM?FU! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anything is possible but you will never know unless you make that first move. Remember that the 1st impression will be the one that lasts forever. Don't worry about the car or job, if you are truly genuine she will see past the material side and go for the heart.
2006-09-05 06:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by tman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if she if she is shallow or not. If she won't take the time to get to know you just because you live with your parents and you drive a crappy car then she isn't worth your time anyway.
2006-09-05 13:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if she is a college grad and is older that she will want someone doing as well or better than herself. But you have to take risks in life dude go for it
2006-09-05 13:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different and there is no telling how one person will react in a given situation. Maybe try first by interaction or at least by getting her name.
2006-09-05 13:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by hoddin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, it doesn't matter what you status is, all that matters is who you are. If she doesn't see beyond that then the girl you're meant to be with will come along. Try and get to know her more.
2006-09-05 13:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by Yokihana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you should get to know her name and see what she does for a living. then you could ask her out
2006-09-05 13:49:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if she is the right one for you, that stuff doesn't matter.
Stop making excuses and ask her. You will never know if you don't try. Good luck!
2006-09-05 13:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The material stuff should not matter that much!! What matters is what is in your heart and soul!!If she is not the one their will be plenty of other young ladies who will look at what is really important! when I met my husband, he had no car, no phone and we made it!!!!
2006-09-05 13:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by hillbilly wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give a try. Life is full of surprises. You never know your luck....
2006-09-05 13:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by Twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only try...........your circumstances shouldn't matter if she likes you as much as you like her.
2006-09-05 13:48:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋