I meet this guy and he is someone that I have found myself totally comsumed with him. But I am not getting nothing from the relationship other than a brief phone call and maybe some intimancy.
2006-09-05 06:40:13 · 14 answers · asked by Chiefs Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why does he consume you?
Hmmm...
To quote a phrase, "He's just not that into you."
It's really your decision to stay or go but you deserve more from a guy in whom you have put so much emotional investment.
2006-09-05 06:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If by intimacy, you men sex, and if the only time you're receiving these phone calls is when he wants this, then you need to walk because he is using you. If by intimacy you mean, dates or spending time enjoying one another, then just stay and give it time. Ask him how he feels about you, and if his answer isn't satisfying enough for you, then find someone else that will give you the treatment and time you deserve.
2006-09-05 06:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I act like you dont care. Stop calling and go on with your life. If its meant to be and if the guy really does like u he will run after u.It could be one of two things he is playing hard to get or ur just a booty call
2006-09-05 06:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by lynda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk.
2006-09-05 06:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by Eri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back away. You can find another man who will treat you better. Actually, take a look at yourself. Is there something you are doing?
2006-09-05 06:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by InsufficientLoser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away. b/c if he's not feeling you and you stay, you will remain unfulfilled and you will cheat to fill that void. don't waste anymore time with him....find someone who is into you as much as you are into them. good luck
2006-09-05 06:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO BE IN A ONE SIDED RELATIONSHIP? EVERYONE DESERVES TO BE LOVED AND GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP WHAT THEY PUT INTO IT. EITHER CONFRONT HIM OR MOVE ON AND GET INTO A REAL RELATIONSHIP. YOU DON'T NEED THE PAIN!!!
2006-09-05 06:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by MAJOR JIM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you mean a booty call? Try to go 2 weeks with out him.see if he contacts you I know its hard..you can do it..
2006-09-05 06:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by heartzz_ablaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay and tell him what u feel
if it's the same when u talk with him then move on!
2006-09-05 06:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away, it will hurt less now, than it would later on if you stay
2006-09-05 06:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋