I met my g/f's friend just a handful of times but we both seem to be clicking. I don't know what to do. If I break up with my g/f, I probably couldn't date her friend anyway as they'd lose their friendship. I'm stuck.
2006-09-05 06:35:02 · 13 answers · asked by BadBoy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, we've talked a lot online. She's told me that if I wasn't with my g/f that she would have me in a heartbeat. She has shown interest in me. More interest than just a friend would. I love my g/f but I'm just not feeling the relationship nor have I felt it for a while. I just don't feel like I did when I first met her.
2006-09-05 06:48:56 · update #1
first you should detach from your girlfried and after a while you should ask g/f's friend for..:))))
2006-09-05 06:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by derin15 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, that's rough. Sometimes you can let the steam out of a situation like this by examining it more closely. Are you reading more into this than what really is? Maybe the friend is just being friendly. Just because she likes talking to you or something doesn't mean she wants you to dump your g/f for her. I say stop reading more into it than what is. Just be friends and stop trying to figure out the future. A handful of times meeting someone is not enough to throw away your relationship with your g/f.
2006-09-05 13:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by meillee44 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough one...
Sorry, there is no right answer, but has she shown any interest in you?, because she could just see you as a friend. You have to decide if its worth risking your current relationship for the chance of something else.
2006-09-05 13:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by santa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one, but I think more people go through it than you might think.
How long have you been with your girlfriend? If it's a long time, maybe your feelings for her friend will pass. It could just be a phase, or a infatuation. Is it worth giving up what you and your girlfriend have?
2006-09-05 13:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by nowimrelaxedicantbesure 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a new girl completely...Stay as far away from both of them as possible...Pls dont break up two friends although it takes two to tango! But honestly I would suggest removing yourself from the situation completely!
2006-09-05 13:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by tha gurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you love your gf then back away from the friend. because she can turn the story around tell your gf a different story and then you can hurt your gf. so either you need to decide what to do ok. good luck
2006-09-05 13:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by Melda R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not supposed to be falling for your gf friend that is so wrong. Dont hang out with her so much and maybe you might not have feeling for her. You need to tell your gf how you feel. She understand you never know.
2006-09-05 13:43:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THATS SUCKS A**!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I feel sorry for you. I dont know what to say. You are right. It will ruin their friendship. But what if the girl likes you? Do you even know that? She could be one of them bitches that wont care about stuff like that and date you anyway. Or maybe they aren't even GOOD friends. Find out.
Good luck
2006-09-05 13:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by Boricua 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think u have to play with both. if there is no other contigencies.
If not u have already one why the hell u need another.
2006-09-05 13:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by Pawan Holmes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love you gf anymore then move on. If she really loved you she would let you be with her friend. granted she might be mad for a while but it to shall pass!
2006-09-05 13:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by Mallory 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to not hurt them cause one or both will be hurt if you do something like that.
2006-09-05 13:38:21 · answer #11 · answered by Happy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋