My boyfriend has only gone down on me once and we've been dating for 4 months. How can I give him a hint without directly asking him to? I'm shy and feel uncomfortable talking about it with him and don't want to lose him. Trust me, I do not stink down there and am perfectly healthy. Has anyone ever had to deal with this before?
2006-09-05 06:27:06 · 13 answers · asked by Amanda T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I meant to say how can I give him the hint to do it more...I want it.
2006-09-05 06:28:05 · update #1
I know you said you don't want to tell him directly, but bring up in conversation something like, what is your favorite part of sex, or what is your favorite position, after he tells you, you tell him, you dont have to ask him for it, he should just do it. And when he does, make a lot of noise, like you are really enjoying it, I mean a lot. The sounds you make, and by him knowing how much he is turning you on will make it want to do it all the time..Guys love when they are doing a good job. Personally, I would just say, you need to go down on me more LOL.. but I wasn't always like that so I understand.
2006-09-05 06:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What sometimes works is body language. While you're in bed kissing and naked, move so he starts kissing your neck. Then, squirm a little and moan and even push his shoulders down a bit to get him to kiss and suck on your breasts. While he's doing that, move your groin around in a slightly exaggerated way, and move his hand to your crotch. When he's really into it, push again, gently, and squirm upwards a bit so that he goes down to kissing the space under your breasts and your belly. Shortly, he'll get the idea and go down on you. While he's down there, give him sound signals: moans when it feels good, and sharp intakes of your breath, or even little squeals of delight. When you orgasm, make it obvious and even announce that you're coming. Move around an extra amount so that he for sure understands that your orgasm is strong. When your orgasm is over, tell him it felt great the way he did that to you and be sure to then please him to his orgasm. By showing him you like it an extra lot, he'll start doing it more.
Another good technique is to initiate a 69 position. Have him lie on his back, you kissing him, both of you naked. Slowly start kissing lower, but as you do, rather than moving your whole body down, rotate down, moving your legs and knees around and up as your head goes down his body, licking and kissing lower and lower. When you reach his penis with your mouth, your knees should be near his shoulders. As you suck him, put one knee over his head, and move your crotch toward his mouth. He'll get the idea what to do!
2006-09-05 13:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, here is a couple of hints...while he is kissing you, move your hands on top of his head and slightly push him down to your chest and then push him down and down until he's there. Thats without using words. Now with using words, while your kissing, whisper in his ear "I want your tongue in me". Say it sexy, and he will jump down there like a rabbit, but if he's willing to do you...do him a favor and give him a *******. Sex is not one sided, it's both of you feeling good...kida like the song. Hope this helped! ~JUStin
2006-09-05 13:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by JUStin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grab his head the next time he's sucking on your tiits and just start pushing him down there and hold his head until he's finished also move it around to the positions that feel good.
2006-09-05 13:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have a discssion with him. good sex is the result of open communication. If you are too shy to discuss it then you should not expect him to know how much you enjoy it.
2006-09-05 13:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
assume the 69 position, he might be more inclined to do it at the same time ur doing him, if that doesnt work, u might have to actually come out and say it
2006-09-05 13:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what you want. If you don't tell him how is he suppose to know? Why be shy if it's something you really want.
2006-09-05 13:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray! Prayers will help you be stronger! God loves you, if you talk with HIM he' will give you the power you need!
2006-09-05 13:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by MV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the word is advice.
2006-09-05 13:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just straight up and tell him.
2006-09-05 13:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jamacaray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋