I need help....I think my relationship has hit rock bottom?

Question

My partner thinks that I want to do something with a friend of his or do something with another woman. I have told him time and time again no I do not. I am so lost...so upset. He has treated me differently the last half week. I just do not know what to do. I love him so much, but I feel I am losing him.

Answer 1

Sorry girl. It sounds like guilt to me. A lot of times when your partner keeps accusing you of doing something wrong with no type of proof, they are feeling guilty for something they did and feel as if it is going to be done to them. Look into it. good luck.

Answer 2

Very IMP :- "different treatment" as mentioned by you, is a part and parcel of a good relationship. Please do not be under the wrong impression THAT there is no scope for doubts to arise in a good relationship.

also, check out whether your love is conditional or unconditional ? If unconditioned, i do not think you would be so upset. Instead, you would also love him doubting you and the entire process would be treated as a laughing matter. Try it.

If conditional, find out what are the conditions creating love on him ? Slowly work on it and convert all those conditions into a non expectation selfless one. Automatically, he will forget everything and start loving you.

Besides all, BE PATIENT. KEEP LOVING HIM. GIVE HIM TIME TO REALIZE THE TRUTH. OVERFLOW WITH LOVE WHICH WILL ENCOMPASS YOUR WORRIES AND HIS DOUBTS.

Answer 3

Often times I think men can be accusing because of what they are feeling same as with women. Sounds like he is getting bored. Try something new in the bedroom or do something he's told you he's wanted to do. A fantasy he has. As long as it is within your morals to do so.

Answer 4

Why does he think this? There has to be a reason for him to feel this way. If you have given him no reason to feel that you want to betray him, maybe he's looking for some sort of excuse to leave the relationship and that was the best he could come up with

Answer 5

If you have made things clear that you do not want to do anything with anybody else and he still complains that he thinks that you do, i would wonder if it was actually him having these thoughts about eing with other people.. I would leave him if it didn't stop!

Answer 6

You both need to sit down and have a long talk. Try to work it out, make him realize you arnt looking at anyone else. Tell him how much you love him and that no one else out there has your heart.

AND KEEP TELLING HIM.

Answer 7

you need to sit down and discuss what his problem is. Obviously he doesn 't trust you. Something must have happened to give him that impression. You need to really talk about this and find out why he is pulling away.

Answer 8

See... I hate guys like this... just as much as I hate girls who wine about their men masturbating, or going to strip clubs. He is probably feeling guilty over something and is constantly having to nag you about liking girls and guys to make himself seem less guilty. Id check him out... LEAVE HIM... Find someone who wont constantly remind you of your parents always watchin you to see what you are doin.

Answer 9

let go of him,, I know it sounds harsh,, but that's what worked for my hubby,, I kept trying to push him away and telling him I was gonna leave,, accusing him of cheating ect ect. so instead of fighting to keep me or holding on too tight,, he said fine and walked away and told me to go. well needless to say it drove me crazy and I did everything I could do to get him back.

just my twisted life,, but it's worth a try.

Answer 10

Either

A. He actually wants you to do something with his friend or a girl

or

B. You need to explain why it is that he thinks this.