Hi, I like this girl, but she doesn't feel the same way. Of course, normally I move on and I think that's what most people do, too. But I really like her and some of my friends say don't give up. I know some friends and you might know some, too that initially they failed, but after some time, somehow, they manage to win her over. I know it probably doesn't happen often, or does it? But my question is, when should I give up?
2006-09-05 06:12:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't say to give up...but maybe back off for a while. I definately wouldn't give up going out with other girls or anything but you never know what the future holds for you.
2006-09-05 06:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Smoops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER, NEVER, put your feelings out there if you are not getting the same thing in return. You are prone to getting hurt! depending on the type of person she is, she can use the strong feelings that you have for her against you! and use you for everything you have basically take advantage. You deserve to be loved by somene who feels the same way you do. Why punish yourself trying to get the love and approval of someone who doesnt feel the same? you are worth and deserve so much more! you have to know when God gives us signs and its obvious that this is not the person for you. Dont try to fix things on your own let go and let live. There is someone out there that is going to give you the love and attention you deserve and need. Most importantly learn to love yourself and dont take her not wanting to be with you personal...its has nothing to do with you and everything to do with her. Know your worth and know that you cant force others to love you! the sooner you realise that the better off you will be...trust, pray and believe that there is someone out there that is just for you!
2006-09-05 13:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rinah 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my god give up this guy who was my friend was so in love with me for 2 yrs but i always blew him off and i hated doing that but i never had feelings for him well anyways it's not worth it honestly because she doesn't care and she won't feel the same way try your best to start moving on luckly she was never ur gf just think about how your going to feel in the long run trust me if it's not working now she probably won't ever acknowledge you if u think u have a chance with her then go for it if not don't hurt ur self over it
2006-09-05 13:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by USAF1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u want to no what to do then pay attention. if she likes u as a freind then distence urself from her. it may sound weried but the more time she spends with out u the more she will like u again when u see her next. another thing is, maybe it would be better fo r u to just be freinds with her, atleased that way u dont have the aqward break ups. but if u realy want to go out with her then. do what i said. and wait til the time is right . dont push her to hard u will only end up driving her farther away. insteade distence ur self and wait for her to cmoe to you.
2006-09-05 13:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by alex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up, just move on with your life. It will happen or it won't but are you going to put your life on hold while you are waiting?
2006-09-05 13:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is that you, VS?
You give up when waiting becomes too much of a pain in the a s s.
2006-09-05 13:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she doesn't feel the same way you should move on and find someone who does. you can't make someone change their feelings
2006-09-05 13:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
right after she said she doesnt feel the same way
2006-09-05 13:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well say hi to her and maybe soon she will gradually fall for you if not their is a lot more girls in the world bucko
2006-09-05 13:16:52 · answer #9 · answered by Logan I 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When she tells you to. Otherwise, it'll be harrassment.
If you're not sure, ask her directly.
2006-09-05 13:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋