I believe they are just friends but he talks on the phone and stops by her house often. Two weeks ago he agreed he would let me know if he plans on visiting with her. Yesterday I caught him at her house. Instead of apologizing to me, he turns the tables and blames me for all the terrible things I do. Am I crazy to stay with him, and why wont he apologize to me?
2006-09-05 06:11:35 · 11 answers · asked by sunshineasd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to figure why he needs to lie to you about this. Is it because he still has something going with his ex? the writing is on the wall girl .......move on.
2006-09-05 06:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advise 101. No. No. No. No. If you are in this relationship JUST for sex, then stay in it. But if you're trying for the long haul, get out now. Liars and liars and will lie to you again and again. You may have done some things to upset him, but he is LYING to you. If two people are in love, besides ALOT of the other things you should and should not do to or say to one another; one is LIE to them. Do you want to be with someone who you can't trust? Always wondering if they love you anymore, or was you the only girl he had sex with this week? He might put blame on you for things when you tell him to take a hike and might make you feel guilty or something, but don't listen. This is something you need to do to start fresh with someone who will appreciate you and treat you like the world, instead of him treating you like every girl he's with. I hope you find the courage to say "get the **** outta her you stupid ***** *** mother ******!!" lol. I wish the best for you. ~JUStin
2006-09-05 06:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by JUStin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to get to the bottom of the issue by finding out the whole truth and nothing but the truth because his explanations leave it open to a lot of questions you have a right to know.
He shouldn't be over his ex girlfriend house but with his current girlfriend spending his extra time showing you that he can be trusted.
If it was me, I would have a right to a explanation that I can live with instead of constant arguing and fighting over this issue.
But I am glad you notice things and don't let the wool be pulled over your eyes and ask your boyfriend is it going to be you or his ex because he is spending time often over a ex house instead of spending that time with you.
2006-09-05 06:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really is an rather puzzling situation, yet you want to go away him you deserve someone who will appreciate you an take care of you actual. He of direction does no longer appreciate you pretty if he humiliated you in the front of his ex's relatives. He see's you as his fail chance-free, you'd be there for him even as his x isn't. His heart (no count number how chilly that is) belongs to her. that is a terrible devastating ingredient what handed off with your toddler, yet each and every thing takes position for a reason. he's not shrink out to be a father is is of direction way too egocentric. i desire you do your self actual and go away him. adult males do no longer change no count number what the area. pass out and locate a guy who merits you.
2016-12-06 11:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by krok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are crazy to stay with him. He probably won't apologize because he feels that you were checking up on him. If you aren't comfortable with him being around his ex then you need to tell him so.
2006-09-05 06:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must really love him,I suppose. Instead of dropping him u r just asking others about the problem.
Come on be a girl , Drop him down and move on. there are still more waiting for your yes.
2006-09-05 06:37:49 · answer #6 · answered by Pawan Holmes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completely normal to feel threatened by this. I would not want my guy hanging around with his ex. If he does not respect your feelings enough to apologize, and he keeps hanging out with her, dump him and move on.... He's not worth it.
2006-09-05 06:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by Donkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ak him if he really care about you and love you. if he evades the question them drop him.
if he loves you then may be he should get to explain why he wants to spend more time his friend (if she is really a friend to him) rather than you.
but for sure guys like that are not truely ready for a relationship. so better leave him
2006-09-05 06:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by Vaness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are crazy just in love my boyfriend sometimes gets jealous of me hanging out with one of my special friends but i am just friends with him. so if you want to ask if you can meet her before you if he denys then ask why no answer give it time and if nothing changes move on.
2006-09-05 06:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by cosmocutie03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are crazy for putting up with that crap. Move on and tell him to take a hike.
2006-09-05 06:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋