my boyfriend of about 2 months told me he loved me, but how do i know he really does? and isn't just sayin it?
2006-09-05 06:09:50 · 11 answers · asked by jess08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We cant tell you that. He is the only one that knows. He could love you, he could have strong lust for you. Just go with the flow. Do you love him? If not, don't just say it back to make him happy. Wait until you feel as if you love him.
Other things to consider. Have you slept with him yet? If not, maybe he is trying to get some. ( not necessarily, but maybe)
2006-09-05 06:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him, then you shouldn't even be asking this question. when i first met my husband, we knew from the first moment that we loved each other and were going to stay together. after being together for about a month we said that we loved each other and now 4 years later, we are married and have a wonderful daughter, 7 months old. we are the happiest that we've ever been.
2006-09-05 13:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by kim w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a firm believer that actions speaks louder than words. It's not what he says but what he does that will only determine his true feelings for you. Only time will tell...but you must know the difference between good love and bad love. Sometimes our hearts can do the thinking when certain situations arise. Its important to love ourselves before we can can love another human being. Just relax and let God guide you...he wont steer you wrong. Remember time reveals all things! : )
2006-09-05 13:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by Rinah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't..You either open yourself up to loving and being loved, or you close down and stay single. Either one is ok, but if it is love you choose, then give up the doubt. Nothing kills a loving relationship like doubt does. You've only been dating for two months, in time you will feel his love and see it in the way he treats you. Give it time...
2006-09-05 13:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move with him for a few days without emotionally getting attached to him and then u will understand whats what ...u can tell for urself what is the real thing and then u will have to decide what to do...
2006-09-05 13:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust os the key issue there!!
2006-09-05 13:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by kolowski4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to tell by the look in his eye's but it is hard to tell and sometimes you can't.
2006-09-05 13:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will discover when the relationship is going.
2006-09-05 13:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont all you can do is trust your man, if that's to hard then your not meant to be together. if he loves you thats good for him wait till you know that you love him then tell him and think about how you would feel if he didnt think you really meant it!!!!!
TRUST...TRUST...TRUST...TRUST...TRUST...TRUST...TRUST
2006-09-05 13:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by bigmj75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to trust him. If you don't, then move on.
2006-09-05 13:11:28 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋