why do females automatically think there must be a reason for cheating?

Question

i meant why they think they have a reason if/when cheating.

Answer 1

Because there's got to be at least a half way logical reason for ruining a relationship.

If there's no love we get it
If there's no compatibility we get it
If there's no chemistry we get it

But when you have all those things + more in a relationship and a person cheats, then that's truly mind boggling ...for me anyways.

Answer 2

There always IS a reason for cheating.... are you trying to say that some just do it because of the hell of it? Then if so those are people that I do not want to know, because they don't have a soul!

Women want to find out the reason a guy cheats on them, because we're automatically wired to take the act of someone cheating on us as a sign of rejection... despite how self confident and self assured we are about ourselves... and even someone with the highest self esteem can be reduced to feeling they are worthless by such an act. Furthermore, anyone cheats on their g/f or bf, husband or wife..... doesn't need to be in a relationship until they a)grow up b)wise up, c)can figure out what the hell is wrong inside their head and fix it, and d)visit the wizard and get a heart--because anyone who does that sort of thing definitely doesn't have one!

Answer 3

Because cheating is not an accident. You cannot accidently take off your clothes and have sex with someone.

There is always a reason.

Answer 4

Are you saying there is no reason for cheating? I disagree with you--even if it mental, there is a reason. (Of course, I am female)

Answer 5

There is always a reason for doing something. No exceptions.

Answer 6

duh, because there HAS to be a reason for cheating. if you were happy with her, you would not have cheated in the first place, thus, there is a reason. why are you so unhappy with her that you would need to cheat?

Answer 7

I agree with Amanda K.