2006-09-05 06:07:10 · 6 answers · asked by mona 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, my boyfriend of three months had taken me to his home. ( We did not have sex there, but still, I was there) No evidence of any woman there. Out of nowhere, a girl calls and says they are living together! I knew from things she said that it was true-and she knew what I said was true. What I did was told her everything about my relationship with him and then went straight to his work and told him that I knew and that I told her. I told him I would not see him if he was with her and that it was not ok what he had done.
Apparently, they had been living together for 8 and a half years and were not married yet. Before I left, I told her to kick his *** to the curb! And that's my advice to you. I would move out, or throw his stuff out and change the locks. You forgive him ONCE and you can look forward to it happening again. This girl told me he had done it to her before and was worried I would continue pursuing him. I told her I never pursued him! He pursued me. And frankly, why the hell would I want him? So I could be her a few years from now, checking his cell phone messages and finding out he's courting some other girl or having sex with some other girl while I'm at home doing his laundry? No thank you. Honestly, she must not have any self esteem to take that from him over and over. It's her own fault for not insisting he marry her. He is still a LOSER- It's just that she can't change him She has to change herself and the way she allows him to treat her. Then, he will either change or not and that is the test of whether or not he really loves her and wants to marry her.
You should NEVER LIVE WITH A MAN WITHOUT BEING MARRIED FIRST. NEVER NEVER NEVER. I can't preach about sex before marriage, but I can tell you to buy a book called The Rules. It may help you. Either live with it that he cheats and will continue to cheat, or kick his *** out and don't let him see you for 6 months. If he shows up with a diamond engagement ring-then you have something to think about . (And DON'T just accept it. He has to court you all over again and PROVE he means it.) Otherwise, it's NEXT! There are plenty of handsome guys who have money, are well endowed and want to be your boyfriend. Put yourself back on the market and see. Good Luck.
2006-09-05 06:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by Instant Justice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all I am not gay or Bi. So the question does not apply :P
However if it was my GF well lets just say I'd tell her to let the door hit her *** on the way out.
2006-09-05 13:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you have all the correct infomation, and if it's true, see what he has to say for himself, if he agrees, and dosen't really seem to care, dump his a***!!! but if he disagrees, check again that it's true, or else you could be ending something good.
2006-09-05 13:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by Rosalind S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to kick him the Nards and send him packing! He is not faithful then and not worth being hurt over!!
2006-09-05 13:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by kolowski4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that should even be a question
2006-09-05 13:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his nasty ***.
2006-09-05 13:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by D-Beat Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋