How can i go about this? ive never been any good at reading others faces. can someone please help me, i dont want to lose her thanks
2006-09-05 06:05:32 · 18 answers · asked by confused always 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can i go about this? ive never been any good at reading others faces. can someone please help me, i dont want to lose her thanks, she says i need to learn how to tell when she is mad or sad or happy or w/e mood she is in i should look at her face and know
2006-09-05 06:08:23 · update #1
Go to facialexpressions.com
That will help.
2006-09-05 06:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an effort to learn about her. Make a true effort to notice the little signs of how she gets in different moods. Start by learning about her happy times. How are her facial expression, her words, her tone of voice. Then, notice when she gets depressed or angry - you'll see a difference in the facial expression, her tone of voice and the words she uses to describe things.
My husband has learned my little signs better than I, in fact, I didn't really believe I was throwing any signs out at all.. but I guess I was wrong. Not that I don't communicate, I am very forward about how I feel and why - but he knows when it's coming, and what kind of "discussion" we are going to have...
And to tell the truth, I've learned the same about him. He has certain facial expressions and certain "dialogue" (certain tones in his voice) that clue me into his moods or to ask probing questions because something might have happened that affected him on a particular day...
My point is that we all have gestures - or body language as another writer said - that gives clues about how we feel.
2006-09-05 13:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by nuovoterra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I am a girl and i know were she is coming from. Sometimes it hurts when a guy cant tell what your thinking or what you are feeling b4 you tell them. This is what you do, go to her and say "I am sorry (bring flowers or candy or a stuffed bear or something along those lines) than say I can only learn if you teach me" That will most likely work give it a shot i know i would fall on my knees if my bf did that to me
2006-09-05 13:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by idgaf mkaaay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she means is that she wants you to understand when she is upset about something i guess..Maybe you should tell her how much she maen to you and that you don't want to lose her but you just can't make the expressions on her face..Well just try to talk to her about it..it's not everything that people can read on faces..You need to communicate more instead of playing guessing games.
Take care.
2006-09-05 13:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not about reading faces! It has more to do with the eyes! The Eyes are the window of the sole! They tell how someone feels! Just pay attention to her eyes and what she maybe feeling!
2006-09-05 13:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by kolowski4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eff that man, you need to wait for her to calm down a bit, and then you need to explain to her that it's impossible for you to know exactly how she feels unless she tells you, nobody can read minds, if she wants somebody like that, she'll never be satisfied, no matter how much of a good guy you are.
2006-09-05 13:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by Michael L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some are good reading others feelings, some aren't. You shouldn't feel bad about it. You just need to tell her to SAY what she feels and when she feels it. Tell her "I need you to be honest on how you feel and when you think I did something to hurt your feelings. No more strange looks or sad faces. Just tell me what you are thinking."
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2006-09-05 13:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mary7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest it shouldn't be your responsibility to read her face . Fair enough if shes angry but if she knows your no good at this she should tell you how she feels rather than depending on you interpreting the way shes acting .
2006-09-05 13:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you learn to read her face? Why can't she just talk about how she really feels instead of expecting you to read her mind?
2006-09-05 13:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Nonverbal communication (NVC) is usually understood as the process of sending and receiving wordless messages. Such messages can be communicated through gesture; body language or posture; facial expression and eye gaze; object communication such as clothing, hairstyles or even architecture; symbols and infographics; prosodic features of speech such as intonation and stress and other paralinguistic features of speech such as voice quality, emotion and speaking style."
Search Google for non-verbal communication - there are many resources - wish you luck!
2006-09-05 13:09:49 · answer #10 · answered by love2travel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the only book you will need, to learn how. I have read most all of them.
She also needs to learn how to communicate verbally, instead of thinking someone is psychic.
2006-09-05 13:09:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋