2006-09-05 06:04:47 · 17 answers · asked by Kaleb J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No mate find a partner
2006-09-06 00:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by MrMago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Partner is better, and here's my reason why. Almost every first time is not purfect. One night stands are just that repeat one night stands. Partner on the other hand learns about you and usually uses that the second time around. Which makes the second time around better. You learn to trust each other and you then are willing to explore new boundaries, and find new limits. One night stands only last a bit. Partners can go all night, in the morning afterwards, and heck even the rest of that day. I mean what can be better then going the whole weekend and ordering in? While trying different different things the whole time, and being stimulated Physicaly, Mentaly, and Emotionaly. The Brain is after all the most sensative organ.
2006-09-05 13:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by Rivan81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a partner is better. And SAFER! If you have a partner the two of you can develop a good relationship. You can discover all the things you like rather than worrying if the one night stand is going to just lay there like a bump on a log. If you stay with one person you can explore all options of different positions, etc and discuss what youlike or dislike and you know if will always be good fun.
2006-09-05 13:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Just Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you want...
The one night stands is good if you don't want commitment and are just out for sex! You also do not risk the chance of being hurt if you are dumped. The big negatives about this is the fact that you risk getting someone you do not care about pregnant and.or catching an STD. Then you are linked to this person that you do not care anything for except sex.
When it comes to having a partner, you learn about this person and you can even grow to love them over time. When you both want it, sex is right there and you don't have to look for it. You also do not have to worry about STD's as long as your partner is faithful. The pregnant part is something you just can not avoid unless you prefer the company of your own sex. In that case I guess you dodge that bullet.
So in the end, it is just about what you want & what makes you happy. I personally prefer a partner. I am sick fo all the games that are involved with noe night stands since in most cases those turn into booty calls...
2006-09-05 13:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by Optimus P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a patner is deff alot better...it's safer of course, but like other people have said...it leads to much better sex. Although i have have a few one night stands and there is a certain thirll in having them...but you need to beable to still live with yourself the next day...and as i am getting older, i see that yes one nighters may be fun and exciting to a point, but in the end it's a partner that makes you feel as high as the skiy...
2006-09-05 14:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by tigerlily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One night stands are sought after because they provide quick physical excitement with very little commitment; where as, a partner can provide the same physical excitement with mental fulfillment and friendship. Overall, I rather take the partner since the sex can get better every time (experiementation) and it is nice having someone who fulfills more than just my physical desire.
2006-09-05 13:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see - if you aspire to be a male whore, then go ahead with the one night stands and make sure you cover up. Make sure you get paid well, too.
If you want someone who gives a d**n about you, then find someone you can have a conversation with a build a relationship.
Even at McDonalds it takes 90 days before you get benefits. Ask yourself if you are worth more than a cheeseburger.
You need to realize that you deserve a realtionship with someone who thinks you are wonderful. How can that possibly happen in one night? C'mon.
2006-09-05 13:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by Susan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a partner of course -
1st - in one night stands there is no love
2nd - if u know the one u r with, the sex is better
2006-09-05 13:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One night stands are much better. They don't lead to "the old ball and chains".
2006-09-05 13:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by Free Ken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this time i recommend a partner with so much disease out there beside that it is nice to wake up with someone and know you wont be alone.
2006-09-05 13:16:44 · answer #10 · answered by daughter_rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋