Apaprt from that, i think he likes to hang out late with friends and if he's someon i want to marry, i dont think i can condole that. what do i do?
2006-09-05 06:02:52 · 26 answers · asked by Prettyface 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is too short for you. Explain the situation to him as nicely as you can. And move on. That's just the facts of life. Harsh though it may seem, that's how life works. I'm 6'3". I wouldn't date a girl who was 6'9".
2006-09-05 06:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by TechnoRat60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have certain things that we are and aren't attracted to. If you aren't attracted to short men, then so be it. I personally don't like men with red hair. I guess I won't be dating Carrot Top and you shouldn't be dating Minnie Me.Ha Ha. His staying out late with friends is secondary, if you were really interested in this guy, you wouldn't be questioning his height or anything else. He's not the guy for you, and that's alright...Don't settle, you've got to have great chemistry and a mutual attraction before you can make a love connection.
2006-09-05 06:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda think that you like him but are embarrassed about his height. And by saying he likes to hang out with his friends late is something you wont deal with if you get married is an excuse for you to talk yourself outta liking him. Why would you think about marriage if you are not even dating yet. Height is just a number, its the person that counts. How he treats you and what he does for you is much more important than how tall he is.. If you like him, date him and don't give a **** what other people think.
2006-09-05 06:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone changes when they are ready to settle down. Besides when your young enjoy it now cause when you get older it gets boring to go out late and hang out. Height is nothing! That's just a small technicality in life! Besides it is how the person is deep inside not what they look like! As I was always told never judge a book by its cover!!
2006-09-05 06:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by kolowski4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can address the hanging out late issue by talking to him directly about it. As far as the height issue, either you accept it or don't. It is not changeable. If it concerns you so much it is giving you anxiety, I suggest you break up with him. If you can envision this not being a problem..maybe give him a chance.
2006-09-05 06:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by Mav17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're already finding things you don't like about the guy, maybe you should look other places. These things might be on the back of your mind and you might look for any excuse to use these as a reason to start dating someone else.
2006-09-05 06:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your all the same size lying down. I just had to say that because that is a little imature. Sorry, that is like being racists. Age, color, size and money should not be an issue, it should be about how the person will treat you.
2006-09-05 06:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, then carry on with him. If not, then find someone else. But don't let height decide that factor - is he loyal? Smart? And anything else which matters to you. You best talk to him about this if it bothers you too much!
2006-09-05 08:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by VRS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound a little self obsessed.
Maybe he's thinking 'god she's too tall for me and she never stays up late, hang out with my friends, I could never marry her!'
But its more likely he is thinking you are a nce girl :)
Dont spoil it by because you are worried about other people's opinions or because you are too stiff in your ways.
BUT DO NOT marry him if you think you are just 'making do' with him.
Seriously, you will be doing him no favours.
Let him find someone he really wants to be with....it could be you!
2006-09-05 06:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by Sleepsack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i so couldnt get over it, im 6ft and i couldnt date some one 6.5 inches shorted than me, no matter how well i got along with them, i would feel silly. as for hanging out lat ewith his friend maybe he'll stop doing that when he meets someone hes ready to settle down with
2006-09-05 06:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋