please help boys, my boyfriend dont want sex anymore. i have been off birth control for a week or so now, and wont be back on it until the 28th. i dont know if maybe thats why he isnt wanting sex now, but i have brought up getting some condoms, but, he didnt want to. i have a really high sex drive, and think about sex 30 times a day, and i cant take this no more. im young, sexy, and very attractive, what else could he want? what should i do boys, i need to know maybe what hes thinking from a mans point of view. thanks!!! :) :) :)
2006-09-05 05:53:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps you should stop basing your relationship on sex and seek a professional therapist.
2006-09-05 05:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's gotta be getting it from somewhere else, cuz if the problem where the birth control there are ways around it such as oral sex and and condoms. If he's not getting it from somewhere else than he won't last till the 28th without sex. Maybe he's just playing games in which case that's stupid. Cuz if my girl played games like that on me I wouldn't wait to see how long she lasted without sex I would find someone to give it to me asap because I also have a really high sex drive. E-mail me back let me know how long he rejects you and how long you are willing to wait.
2006-09-05 07:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by j.sanchez0201 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Amber, when you were having sex with him, how often were you having it? He might be be just tired of having sex all the time. Or, quite possibly he's boning someone else and doesn't have the balls to tell you that he wants tp break up. It may be stress as well.
30 times a day? Thats all? LOL.
2006-09-05 05:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just wait until you're back on your birth control. He could just be worried about getting you pregnant. Condoms are only 92% effective afterall. (Or some number around there)
2006-09-05 06:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by paladin12002000 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are on birth control does not mean you will NOT get pregnant.
30 times a day huh?
2006-09-05 06:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm, well I'd guess it's the birth control thing. And condoms really suck, so I can understand his reluctance. Have you tried mutual oral sex? I don't know too many guys that would turn THAT down.
2006-09-05 05:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by dirtyrubberduck 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lots of guys dont like using condoms... Sometimes they take away alot of the sensations.... So... thats probably why. If he continues to not want sex when you are back on birth control... he's cheating. Dump him. But dont lower yourself to cheating...thats such a cheap thing to do.
2006-09-05 05:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
why did you stop taking the birth control in the first place....that may have something to do with it. Possibly he's found someone new to play with.
2006-09-05 05:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by num1accent01 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My ONLY experience of being with guys that don't want to have sex....Is that it usually means that they're getting it somewhere else....Sorry....Not the answer you wanted I'm sure, but it's true.
2006-09-05 06:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Wait until your married.
2006-09-05 06:07:24 · answer #10 · answered by Movie Guy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋