She invites herslef to our dates. She text's him on his phone. And when I want to do something special for him she does too. Like his birthday or she cooks for him. He doesn't see anything wrong with that!!! What to do?
2006-09-05 05:45:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My guess is that they are very close. That's a good thing. She may see you as a threat to that.
So, make friends with her. Really work at it. Spend time with her apart from your boyfriend. Let her know how much you love her brother and that you think his good relationship with his sister speaks well of him. Once your friendship is working, let her know gently that you need more alone time with your boyfriend.
I know it's a project and not a quick solution. I just don't think you'll get anywhere by making a confrontation over it.
2006-09-05 05:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When she invites herself along...Simply say we would like to have some alone time. Tell your bf that you are going to do this. Tell your bf that you would like to spend some time with him by yourselves. Not all the time, maybe ever other date or so.
2006-09-05 14:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by hello 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋